Today Family Worship

Dealing with Anxiety and Fear

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00:01 I want to spend my life
00:07 Mending broken people
00:12 I want to spend my life
00:19 Removing pain
00:24 Lord, let my words
00:30 Heal a heart that hurts
00:34 I want to spend my life
00:40 Mending broken people
00:46 I want to spend my life
00:51 Mending broken people
01:09 Hello, friends, welcome to Friday night Family Worship.
01:12 I got my co-pilot with me but don't tell anyone,
01:15 this is a secret just between you and me.
01:17 Good to have you here, honey.
01:18 Happy to be here and happy Sabbath everyone.
01:21 I'm glad that you could join in,
01:23 tune in and be blessed.
01:26 And we are going to have a wonderful time, aren't we?
01:28 That's right. We have family with us,
01:30 you are a part of our family.
01:32 And on that note, thank you for your prayers,
01:34 your financial support for all that
01:36 you do to keep this ministry going and growing
01:38 getting ready for the coming of the Lord.
01:40 Tonight we're going to talk about a topic that is fear.
01:43 Yeah, we live in a fearful time, don't we?
01:47 Wow, there's so much to talk about fear,
01:49 but we don't want to dive into any of it right now
01:51 because it's like opening, it's like opening perfume.
01:56 The scent gets out, you just, once you open it, it gets out.
01:59 So let's go ahead and introduce our guests.
02:00 You start on that side.
02:01 All right, to my left,
02:04 we have Eric and Marilyn Durant.
02:07 It's good to be here. Very happy to be here.
02:08 Glad to have my Brooklyn friend.
02:10 Especially with my wife this time.
02:11 Sometimes, I'm here all by myself.
02:13 This time I have my alter ego.
02:17 How long have you been married?
02:19 Fourteen years. All right.
02:22 And you have two little babies, don't you?
02:24 Two little puppies. Puppies.
02:26 Yeah, those are our babies.
02:28 Those are your babies, rightfully so?
02:29 Yes.
02:31 And Eric is the technical assistant.
02:33 If it's broke, Eric is going to fix it.
02:35 I do my best.
02:37 Most of the time, god steps in
02:38 when I break stuff in the process,
02:40 and it always ends up great in the end.
02:43 Okay. My husband calls you a genius.
02:44 He is.
02:46 He reads languages that I have never even thought
02:48 of when he does all that coding and...
02:50 God is the genius.
02:51 I just fill in when and where I can.
02:54 Yes, you're very sharp.
02:56 And Marilyn is the lady in charge.
02:58 I love our Marilyn over here.
03:00 What do you do, Marilyn, just for the viewing audience?
03:02 I'm the manager
03:03 in the call center here at 3ABN.
03:05 Wow.
03:06 So all the calls that come in...
03:08 All the calls that come in,
03:09 our orders and we just had the big project with COVID-19.
03:15 So we have a good time over there.
03:17 Wow! Very good.
03:18 You guys keep, if it's moving,
03:21 it's coming out of the call center.
03:22 That's right.
03:24 And to my right is no stranger at all.
03:26 I think Dee is the veteran here at this table.
03:28 Oh, I am. But I depend on other people.
03:32 I am very familiar where Eric's office is
03:34 and he always takes care of any problem I have
03:36 and Marilyn anytime that comes up
03:39 because you're with a call center mailing now.
03:41 She always gets to me my answers.
03:42 So I depend on all these wonderful people
03:45 that we have here.
03:46 Dee's alternate title is air traffic control.
03:51 She's always flying somewhere.
03:54 And it's like she lines up all the planes, you're next.
03:56 Your program is next, you are coming after,
03:58 you tomorrow, but we appreciate her.
03:59 We let her do her job.
04:00 Someone told me to slowdown and I say,
04:02 you mean walking or driving?
04:03 And they said both. She's wonderful at church too.
04:07 That's right. She keeps it.
04:09 If you want something to get done,
04:11 I think Dee is the person.
04:12 I delegate. You delegate, very well.
04:14 And she gets things done too.
04:16 Well, before we dive into our topic,
04:18 we don't have any singing today,
04:19 we're the non-singing singers.
04:21 We like topic, and get your Bibles
04:23 and invite your family to sit down.
04:25 Because this is the time to not just talk about fear,
04:28 but what's the result?
04:31 What are the antidotes?
04:33 How can we get out of that barrel of fear
04:34 and there's so much of it.
04:35 So, Honey, would you begin with having prayer for us?
04:38 Sure, less bow our heads.
04:39 Our Gracious Heavenly Father,
04:41 it's always a privilege and honor
04:42 to come before Your presence.
04:44 And we do so in humility.
04:47 We thank You, Lord,
04:48 for this blessed Sabbath evening that's here.
04:51 And we invite Your Holy Spirit
04:53 to be here to lead, bless and guide.
04:56 Lord, we are living in fearful times.
04:58 People are scared, they don't know what to do.
05:01 But, Lord, as long as
05:02 we look to You and hold on to You,
05:05 we should not be afraid.
05:07 So we thank You and praise You
05:09 and honor You because You are our God,
05:12 our Father, our King, our best Friend,
05:15 and You are our all in all, in Jesus' name.
05:18 Amen. Amen.
05:20 Amen.
05:23 We are, we always try to get through all of our questions,
05:26 but we want to just kind of lay the foundation
05:28 and little conversation
05:30 will open up the doors for all of us
05:31 to contribute to this conversation.
05:33 But, Honey, let me begin with you.
05:35 What are some of the ways
05:36 you see fear happening in our world today?
05:38 Well, fear, people
05:40 are fearful of losing their jobs,
05:43 the stocks, their investments are going down, that's a fear.
05:48 I know there's fear of the police.
05:52 That's another thing. Wow, that's a new rising one.
05:55 Yeah, I know people in my family.
05:57 That's been a pretty big deal too.
06:00 And so there's fears, you know, wouldn't like walking
06:03 in a certain neighborhood, there's fears for that.
06:07 So fear is a real thing. It's very real.
06:11 And so, that's what we're going to be
06:12 talking about today.
06:14 Fear of homes wrecking, marriages, you know,
06:18 all of that, in this environment
06:19 that we are living in.
06:21 That's right.
06:22 You know, when we open this up, because it was a funny story.
06:25 I say funny because we have a great relationship.
06:27 I don't say funny to minimize it.
06:28 But this is during the COVID environment,
06:31 people were forced to communicate.
06:34 And it either was good for marriages
06:36 or was not good for marriages.
06:38 And we talked about, I asked, I talked to someone about that.
06:40 They said, Well, if you check statistically marriage,
06:43 divorce rates are going up since COVID
06:45 because now you know,
06:47 wives that would normally go to work
06:48 and come home late or vice versa
06:50 and just not see each other until the weekend
06:52 because one goes work in the morning,
06:53 the other go in the evening.
06:55 Now they have to talk to each other
06:56 and it's just like, and who are you...
06:59 The lack of relationship is being brought to the top,
07:03 including not only between husband and wife,
07:05 but between children and parents,
07:08 the lack of relationships.
07:10 We have lost the knack of having relationships
07:14 with the world's technology.
07:17 Yes.
07:18 And those relationships are showing.
07:20 That's right.
07:21 What are some of the fears that you guys see
07:22 that's happening around us?
07:24 Well, I'm fearful for family members.
07:25 My family members are in New York City.
07:28 I have family members in San Antonio.
07:30 And right now, those are still two hotspots
07:33 in a number of different ways.
07:35 And I pray for them all the time,
07:37 their relationship with God, and that that grows
07:40 because I know and you know, and if you read the prophecies,
07:44 we know that this is only going to get worst.
07:48 Men's hearts are growing cold.
07:51 And we also have to pray for our children.
07:54 The children are,
07:56 I remember when I grew up in New York City,
07:58 I didn't face half the things
07:59 that the kids today have to face.
08:02 You know, it's coming in their phones,
08:03 it's coming in their iPads.
08:04 It's coming at them from strangers
08:06 all around the world.
08:07 And I was just thinking,
08:09 there's a lot to be fearful of
08:10 if you don't have the gospel in your heart.
08:13 And I have a friend and we talk a lot.
08:17 And he lives in Washington, DC,
08:19 and I tried to tell him,
08:20 you have to stay centered on the Word.
08:23 That's going to, that's going to get you
08:24 through all the drama and all the fear.
08:26 That's right. Marilyn, what do you see?
08:29 I see a fear of people wanting to be around people,
08:33 you know, especially with COVID and the virus
08:37 and afraid of catching something.
08:40 You sense that detachment now
08:43 and in our environment, you know,
08:46 we get to have worship every morning.
08:48 And now we're not able to hold hands,
08:51 we're not able to hug
08:53 and you can sense that
08:58 detachment and the tension now.
09:01 It's not as warm.
09:04 So I see that and I am fearful, like Eric said for family,
09:09 because you want their relationship
09:11 with Christ to be strong.
09:12 You see a lot of changes in this world,
09:16 and how people are behaving,
09:20 especially being in quarantine, you see the tension.
09:25 And families are kind of divided
09:27 or just stressed from being home
09:30 and not working, not earning an income.
09:33 And so, those are some of the fears
09:34 that I see and I just pray that we can all be healed.
09:40 We come together as one.
09:43 That's true and we like to travel,
09:45 but we haven't had a chance to travel anywhere.
09:48 Even some of the things
09:49 that were planned had to be canceled.
09:51 And we look at the news sometimes
09:53 and that fear also plays itself out in travel.
09:57 Some airlines when a person comes on the plane
10:00 and doesn't want to wear a mask,
10:01 they get carted off and they say,
10:03 Well, you know, my rights are being violated,
10:05 we see, you know, people, the fear rights,
10:07 the rights, all kinds of rights,
10:10 you know, right to privacy,
10:14 right to protest peacefully,
10:17 right to speak out for what a person wants,
10:20 and then it results in fear.
10:21 And so, and even, you know, so sad that America is,
10:25 I was saying to somebody the other day,
10:28 this is America, but I'm hoping that
10:29 it will become the United States,
10:32 because it's not very united.
10:34 Anything else you see?
10:35 I honestly believe everything
10:38 that you've said is all these items,
10:40 but to me, the underlying fear
10:44 is the fear of unknown.
10:45 You don't know when,
10:47 what's going to happen in the future.
10:48 You don't know when your job is going to come back.
10:51 You don't know what's going to happen to your marriage.
10:52 You don't know what's going to happen
10:54 to your loved one.
10:55 So the underlying,
10:56 there's two underlying basis for the fear,
11:00 the loss of rights,
11:02 the loss of our rights of doing things.
11:05 And that unknown of not knowing
11:08 what is going to happen
11:10 or where it's going to change
11:11 and when it's going to go back.
11:12 So that's kind of the basis of it all.
11:16 As a matter of fact, the Bible describes the climate
11:18 that we're in, let's look at the...
11:19 We always use an outline here, but we have our Bibles too,
11:22 because we bounced around but,
11:23 Honey, with Luke 21:26,
11:25 the Bible describes the kind of climate
11:28 we're living in and look at this.
11:30 "Men's hearts failing them from fear
11:32 and the expectation of those things
11:36 which are coming on the earth,
11:38 for the powers of the heavens will be shaken."
11:41 That's right.
11:42 And while we know this is talking
11:43 about cataclysmic events,
11:45 that things that are going to happen in the heavens,
11:47 that have and will continue to happen
11:49 as we get close to the end.
11:51 The beginning part,
11:52 men's hearts failing them from fear.
11:55 Why?
11:56 Because the expectations of what's coming next.
11:58 You know, when that book was released,
12:00 booklet was released not too long ago.
12:03 COVID-19, what next?
12:05 And some of you have received
12:06 those booklets that you called for.
12:08 It is, in fact, what's next.
12:10 What do you see? What kind of...
12:11 What do we do when men's hearts are failing them from fear?
12:14 I mean, what kind of, what do we do?
12:16 How do we try to bring settlement
12:18 to those hearts?
12:19 I always keep in mind when I study the Word
12:22 is that the entire gospel is about love.
12:25 And no matter what fear you have,
12:29 I truly believe this that love conquers all fear.
12:33 A long time ago I was talking to
12:36 during our Tuesday worship,
12:38 and there was a list of 10 fears,
12:40 the top 10 fears that everybody has.
12:43 Everyone has a fear or multiple fears.
12:46 But Jesus said, "Fear not."
12:48 And I think that when we're fearful,
12:50 it's almost like a lack of faith.
12:52 We're not trusting in the Lord to carry us
12:54 and to bring us through.
12:56 So when I get a little bit fearful,
12:57 I always turn to the Bible.
12:59 And it deviates my fear, because He's all knowing,
13:04 He's all wise.
13:06 And He's going to provide no matter what happens.
13:09 And the Bible reminds me of that when I read it.
13:11 Do you have that top 10? Not with me right now.
13:14 What could you think of the first two?
13:16 Because I think you mentioned one of yours.
13:18 I think the fear of...
13:20 There was the fear of water, the fear of death.
13:24 There was the number one fear. I remember that one.
13:27 It's the fear of public speaking.
13:31 Yeah, but I find in all those cases,
13:34 if you love the Lord, and you trust the Lord,
13:36 that fear goes away.
13:38 I mean, I love, I don't like public speaking,
13:40 but I love sharing the Lord with people.
13:42 And it's my love for God
13:44 that gives me the ability to share it.
13:46 And in love, no matter what fear you have,
13:49 if you're afraid of heights.
13:50 If you have a loved one that you need to rescue,
13:52 that fear is going to go away instantly
13:54 because you love.
13:55 So every fear that's out there, love conquers it.
13:58 And the Bible is the book of love.
14:01 And it's because we put those fears, you know,
14:03 instead think of it as public speaking,
14:05 think of it as sharing Jesus with someone.
14:07 And so all of a sudden it's not a, you know,
14:09 public speaking.
14:11 What are you thinking of, Babe?
14:12 I'm thinking of my fear, bungee jumping or walking,
14:16 doing a zip line because those heights thing...
14:20 Yes, if somebody tried to,
14:21 could somebody tried to pay for me...
14:23 But that's a fear you can avoid.
14:25 What is the fear that you can't avoid?
14:28 We all have fears that we can't avoid or get around.
14:34 We went to the Caribbean and,
14:36 Marilyn, I was sure
14:38 she wasn't going to get on the zip line
14:39 because it was the longest zip line.
14:41 It was like a two-mile zip line in the Caribbean.
14:44 And she said,
14:45 she said no way at first, but then I talked her into it.
14:49 And while we were doing it, love.
14:52 She enjoyed it.
14:54 And as we went down, we were almost side by side
14:56 going down the zip line
14:57 and love conquered her fear and...
14:59 That was from a mountaintop down to the beach.
15:01 That's right, over the water and down to the beach, yeah.
15:04 She loved you and wanted to experience something
15:06 so that overcame that fear.
15:08 That's exactly right.
15:09 Well, she figured, if we go, we go together.
15:12 I had no way down. I had to go.
15:18 Once you get to the top, it's like.
15:19 And we have no other way to press you in the Lord
15:22 and that comes with the love.
15:24 And when the Holy Spirit fills you with God's love,
15:28 you have a different thought about the fear
15:30 that you're facing.
15:32 That's right.
15:33 It's no longer about you and your fear.
15:34 It's about something else, or someone else.
15:38 And that conquers it. I couldn't do it.
15:41 Yeah, I tried to get her to do that on the ship.
15:43 She wouldn't even do it on the ship,
15:45 was only four stories.
15:46 I got geared up and everything and I looked down and I said,
15:49 uh, and I said, "I can't do it."
15:51 Wasn't that high up, was it? No, just four stories.
15:55 It's like dropping your keys
15:56 and reaching over and picking it up.
15:57 Oh, no, it's not.
15:59 Well, let's look at 2 Timothy 1:7.
16:01 That's the second point on there.
16:02 Where does the Bible describe the origin of fear?
16:05 You know, who has that 2 Timothy 1:7?
16:08 2 Timothy 1:7, "For God has not given us
16:12 a spirit of fear, but of power and of love
16:16 and of sound mind."
16:18 And of a sound... So where hasn't it come from?
16:21 It had to come from Satan
16:23 because it didn't come from God.
16:24 That's right. It didn't come from heaven.
16:28 Or from our own sinful, fallen nature.
16:31 I think our fear almost comes from,
16:33 we create our own fear.
16:34 Yeah.
16:36 Well, it's our, that fallen human nature.
16:40 I think sometimes Satan.
16:42 He knows what our individual fears are.
16:45 And sometimes they keep us from doing
16:46 what he wants us what we should be doing.
16:49 He amplifies that fear.
16:50 I was talking to some recently,
16:52 someone recently and they were saying
16:53 how afraid they were to,
16:56 to do certain, do certain things for the Lord.
16:59 And one of the things that I emphasized with them
17:02 was that if you love the Lord, you'll do anything for Him.
17:07 And when I read here that,
17:10 but the power of love and of sound mind,
17:13 that just that to me that totally sums it up.
17:16 Yeah, but of power, that's right.
17:18 He's given us power.
17:21 He's given us love and He's given us a sound mind.
17:24 And I think in the secular world
17:27 they talked about it.
17:29 This is confront your fears to overcome them.
17:33 Remember that show years ago Fear Factor.
17:34 That's right. Yeah.
17:36 Oh. Fear factor.
17:39 People, high wire walking, you know, 35 stories up or,
17:43 you know, they're trying to climb a rope
17:45 while a helicopter is flying over the ocean.
17:47 Or lay somebody in the barrel of worms or...
17:51 You may have power and love them,
17:52 but you don't have a sound mind for that.
17:55 I believe that God's power
17:58 and His love combined to give us a sound mind
18:03 to think about something.
18:05 And a lot of times making up our mind.
18:08 If we want to talk about something minor,
18:11 I determined that
18:13 I was going to change my fear of snakes.
18:18 I mean, my fear of snakes was intense,
18:21 and I kept it a secret.
18:22 I always knew as a child,
18:24 don't let anybody find out, your cousins.
18:26 And so, it was always a secret.
18:28 But as I got older, I mean, I really had a real...
18:32 yeah, I couldn't handle snakes.
18:35 But now, I still I'm not buddies with them,
18:40 but I don't go screaming.
18:41 I don't have to call somebody on the phone.
18:44 Ever held one? No.
18:46 Okay. We haven't.
18:48 And that's not from fear.
18:49 That's just, I don't want to, but Blaton had to come.
18:53 Garland, had to come get rid of a snake for me one time.
18:57 But now I asked the Lord,
19:01 I decided that, that I needed to overcome
19:06 this to a point and to a degree.
19:08 So I think with our certain fears
19:12 if we want to overcome them, and we decide we want to,
19:15 I think God will help us reach a reasonable overcoming.
19:21 And I think He can do that with things like loss of jobs,
19:26 the serious things, the things that really count.
19:29 I think He can help us with that.
19:32 But if you practice with the little stuff,
19:34 if you start with the little stuff,
19:36 you can work up
19:37 to watching His power work in that.
19:40 I always think of the apostles
19:42 after Christ was crucified, how they hid...
19:45 For fear of the Jews.
19:47 For fear of the Jews,
19:48 but what brought them out in the end?
19:50 It was a love for Christ.
19:52 That's what brought them out.
19:54 And that's what allowed the gospel
19:55 to spread to the world.
19:56 So I still insist love conquers all fear.
19:59 And the Holy Spirit gave them their power...
20:01 Yes. That's right.
20:02 To speak boldly.
20:05 Now, what's the difference between fear of God
20:08 and the fear that you have?
20:09 What's the difference? That's a different word.
20:12 That's a different. That's in awe.
20:15 There you go. That is reverence.
20:19 That's looking up at what He does
20:21 when you look up into the heavens.
20:23 See, I never understood that fear of God,
20:25 especially when I feared Him.
20:28 But there's two different words,
20:29 there's a human fear that's in our hearts.
20:33 And then there is the fear of God,
20:35 which is in awe.
20:36 You expound on that better with better words.
20:39 Well, you know,
20:40 the fear of the Lord the Bible says,
20:42 David the Psalmist says,
20:43 "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
20:45 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
20:47 And then the Bible also says in Matthew 10:28.
20:49 Look at that, Matthew 10:28, because this is a fear
20:53 that is different from fear God and give glory to Him.
20:55 You know that one fear God
20:57 and give glory to Him was, you know, revere God.
20:59 acknowledge God, this is His hour.
21:02 This is the one that we should be looking to.
21:04 But when you read Matthew 10:28, it brings out,
21:08 when you're standing before,
21:10 when you're at a crossroads
21:12 and your life is being threatened,
21:14 this is what is being,
21:15 this is the proper context for fear.
21:17 Do you have the one in Matthew 10?
21:19 Matter of fact, Marilyn, you have Matthew 10:28?
21:21 I do.
21:23 "And do not fear those who kill the body
21:26 but cannot kill the soul.
21:30 But rather fear Him
21:31 who is able to destroy both soul
21:34 and body in hell."
21:36 Okay, so that's only the Lord.
21:38 What is in essence saying is when you're standing
21:40 at the crossroads between you know,
21:43 somebody says to you bow down and worship
21:45 or you're going to die, like the Hebrews.
21:47 They said, "Okay, if we're gonna to die,
21:48 we're gonna die.
21:50 God delivers but if not, we'd rather die than bend.
21:52 That was some serious fear at that moment.
21:55 But their love for God,
21:56 Eric, overawed their fear of Nebuchadnezzar.
21:59 That's right.
22:01 That's where Romans 8:15, "You did not receive
22:05 the spirit of bondage again to fear,
22:08 but you received the spirit of adoption
22:10 by whom we cry out, 'Abba, Father.'"
22:13 Actually when we're in fears when we,
22:16 when I want my daddy Abba God
22:20 and that's where we get the love
22:23 that can overcome the fear
22:25 is that personal relationship with God.
22:29 I feel like Abba,
22:31 like is it one spectrum of my love
22:34 and the awe of God,
22:36 how great thou art is at the other end.
22:38 It's this huge spectrum of relationship that goes,
22:43 what a mighty God that can go from one
22:46 to hold me in His arms and say,
22:48 "It's okay Dee to look what I created."
22:53 And so when you are at those crossroads
22:55 like Psalm 118:6 here.
22:57 Who'd like to read that one?
22:58 When you're at that crossroad of decision and you're facing,
23:01 "Hey, I like the reformers, the martyrs, even people today,
23:05 because I think we're coming to that day
23:06 where people that stand
23:08 for what's right are going to once again
23:10 be threatened with fear.
23:12 You know, the Bible says if they don't receive
23:14 the mark of the beast, you know they might be killed.
23:17 So that's another fear
23:18 but what should our attitudes be?
23:19 Who'd like to read that one, Psalm 118:6?
23:22 Psalm 118:6,
23:25 "The Lord is on my side, I will not fear.
23:28 What can man do to me?" So you were saying all along.
23:32 I remember when I was working a job
23:35 a few years ago, quite a few years ago actually.
23:37 And because of the Sabbath,
23:40 it became an issue and they turned against me.
23:44 And it got very traumatic
23:47 with the gossip and everything else.
23:50 And it's fearful, you become fearful,
23:54 you become fearful for your job,
23:56 you become fearful for your reputation
23:57 that you took a long time to develop.
23:59 There's a lot of fear there. But I turned to the Lord.
24:03 And I said, "Lord, let Your will be done.
24:07 You know, I'm going to stand for you, because I love You.
24:11 And I'm going to let the chips fall
24:12 where they fall.
24:14 And it was my love for Christ that carried me
24:17 through this pretty traumatic experience."
24:20 And the wonderful thing is that God blessed me for it.
24:25 And I ended up with a better job afterwards.
24:27 I ended making more money afterwards.
24:29 And the individuals
24:31 that persecuted me, they got laid off.
24:33 So my love carried me
24:36 through the experience for Christ, I stood for Him,
24:39 and God blessed me and that's one of the memories
24:41 that I have of our time during that period of time.
24:46 Isaiah 41:10.
24:47 That's where the Lord tells us that "Fear not,
24:52 for I am with you, be not dismayed,
24:54 for I am your God.
24:55 I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you,
24:57 I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."
25:00 I take my Sabbath School class with the young people.
25:04 I've told them over and over again.
25:08 What will happen if you stand for right?
25:10 Will you get killed? No.
25:12 Will you be embarrassed? Maybe.
25:14 Will somebody make fun of you? Maybe.
25:16 But if you do not stand now, if you don't
25:19 like what you did with your job, even though
25:21 there was a great deal of fear there,
25:23 you stood right then,
25:25 and God delivered you in a mighty way.
25:29 So that tells you that when the time comes
25:31 and your life is on the line, you can stand then
25:35 because you've already tried and tested on
25:38 and we start with little stuff, tested,
25:41 that's why I wanted the kids, start testing God now.
25:45 Practice standing.
25:47 So when the time comes,
25:49 you're so strong in the Lord, you cannot be moved.
25:54 That's right.
25:55 I want refer to that experience we had in Zimbabwe
25:58 when we went on that little Ultralight,
26:01 and then I want you to read Deuteronomy 31:6.
26:03 Talk about that, remember, because that was something,
26:05 that's facing a fear.
26:07 What was that all about? Remember that?
26:08 Yeah, I remember that very well.
26:11 One of my fears again, we went on a...
26:17 Someone paid for us going on Ultralight.
26:21 And it's going to go over Victoria Falls.
26:23 And so I said, "Oh, yeah, I'll do it."
26:25 Okay.
26:27 I didn't know what I was getting myself into.
26:29 I had no clue. So I...
26:32 There was a guy in front of me, he is kind of like a piggyback,
26:35 and he has his seat, I have my seat,
26:38 and these big wings of the aero.
26:41 What is it? Aerolight.
26:43 Aerolight.
26:44 And these big wings right there,
26:45 and I sat in the back and he buckled me in.
26:48 I said, "Oh, this is going to be
26:49 so much fun."
26:50 I remember. No, nothing to bar...
26:52 No barriers, it's just out wide open.
26:54 Yes.
26:55 Sitting on a seat like a bird...
26:57 Mercy, every time I think of it, I get it.
26:59 And so you watched me, I said goodbye...
27:02 Said who go first? I said, oh, ladies first.
27:04 I was so excited.
27:06 As soon as I got and we have headsets
27:08 to hear the pilots,
27:10 I guess you could say he and I talk to each other.
27:13 What is your name? My name is Angela.
27:16 Okay, Angela, we are going to go up until I heard okay.
27:19 And I was excited.
27:21 So up we went, up, higher and higher
27:24 and my heart started racing.
27:27 Yes, you freaked out.
27:28 Are you okay, Angela?
27:31 I said, "No. Take me back."
27:36 "Angela, we did not go over the waterfalls."
27:39 "I don't care.
27:40 Take me back and take me back now."
27:43 The fear was overwhelming.
27:45 I closed my eyes
27:47 because when I was looking down,
27:48 the earth was getting smaller and smaller.
27:50 And I was getting higher and higher.
27:53 And I just saw the puff of my heart was just racing.
27:57 I said, "Take me back, take me back."
27:59 "Angela wait, we did not go to the waterfalls."
28:01 "I don't care about the waterfalls;
28:03 I want to go back now."
28:05 And he took and he said, "Okay,
28:08 but you still have a half hour left on your flight."
28:11 "I don't care, let it go."
28:13 And we turned around and went back.
28:17 And I closed my eyes all the way going back
28:19 because I did not want to see what was,
28:21 you know, even landing.
28:23 We were pretty high.
28:24 And we were going to go over the waterfalls.
28:26 And where else?
28:27 So what happens is, I ended up,
28:29 she only did like total of 15 minutes.
28:30 That's what it took to get out there,
28:32 turn around and come back and land at the airport.
28:34 When I went up, I had 45 minutes
28:36 and I went over the falls.
28:38 He took, they give my extra time.
28:39 The extra time.
28:41 And we got up to about 3,000 feet, mean, sea level.
28:45 But it was actually 1500 but you know,
28:47 when you count all the mountainside
28:50 and everything is about 3,000 feet
28:51 and you get those bumps
28:53 just like in the plane, you know, flying along...
28:54 Turbulence.
28:56 And just the turbulence and you're like,
28:58 there's nothing in front of us, just this open air.
29:02 For the first time in my life, I felt like a free bird.
29:05 So we started talking, I said, What's that?
29:06 He said, that's the game park.
29:08 If we land there, the bees will kill us.
29:10 What about there? That's the Zambezi River.
29:14 If we land there, there are crocodiles,
29:17 hippos and snakes, and we'll die there.
29:21 Well, what happens if the engine quits,
29:23 we have to glide.
29:24 I said, "Well, what if it quits now?"
29:25 He said, "Well, no place we land will be safe."
29:28 We've had a little some nice video
29:31 of going over the waterfalls, really nice.
29:33 And it was breathtaking.
29:34 But then we came back and we landed.
29:36 It was something that I enjoyed doing.
29:39 It was, you know, thank the, Lord,
29:40 we didn't have to pay for it.
29:42 But it was something that I would do again.
29:43 I wouldn't pay for to do that.
29:45 Would you do that, Dee?
29:47 Oh, in a heartbeat because I'm not afraid of heights.
29:49 I love that kind of things.
29:51 But I'm not going to bungee jump.
29:53 We all have, some of the things,
29:55 some of our fears are not maybe realistic,
30:00 but other fears are real.
30:03 I live alone.
30:07 Very rarely but occasionally I might hear a sound
30:10 or whatever and get a little fearful
30:12 but I immediately turn to the Lord
30:15 because I thought, I seriously thought about,
30:18 should I get some cameras?
30:19 Should I get security? Should I do this?
30:22 And you know, my conclusion was,
30:25 God is my safety.
30:27 There is no other safety.
30:29 I can have cameras, I can get them.
30:30 Please help me out.
30:32 It takes some 20, take the police 20 minutes
30:35 to get there, half hour, whatever.
30:37 My safety is in God.
30:39 So each time that I might become fearful,
30:44 and there's real fears in this world, things happen.
30:47 My car just got totaled by a deer.
30:50 I don't know how many people die in Illinois
30:53 from a deer coming through their winter.
30:55 That's a real, something that can really happen.
30:58 But do you stop driving?
31:01 Do you, you have to continue with life.
31:04 A drunk can hit a car. Life is fragile by a heartbeat.
31:08 So there are real fears that we have to deal with.
31:12 But we have to,
31:14 if you turn to the Lord immediately,
31:17 and I came to that conclusion, the Lord is my safety.
31:20 And He knows the days of my life,
31:22 and I'm not going to live my days in fear.
31:25 But being a human person, fear can well up,
31:29 what do you do with the fear?
31:31 That's right.
31:33 Honey, read this one first, Deuteronomy 31:6,
31:35 because this one fits right there.
31:38 We said with all those fears
31:39 and there may be somebody watching the program
31:40 that does live alone, or is out in the country.
31:44 That's why I travel,
31:45 I take my wife everywhere we go,
31:47 because I've left her a couple of occasions.
31:50 And it was when I was out of town,
31:51 that's crazy stuff happened.
31:53 And like I'm in Canada, I can't help her.
31:56 I call a church member. Thankfully, we had.
31:58 This is in California.
31:59 Thankfully, I called a church member
32:01 and said, go over there right away
32:02 and he and his wife went over.
32:04 And, you know, it was terrible.
32:06 So I said, You know what? Let me eliminate that fear.
32:08 I'm taking my wife everywhere,
32:10 we enjoy our time together anyway.
32:11 But look at this one, Deuteronomy 31:6,
32:13 for those who are fearful in situations like this.
32:16 "Be strong and of good courage,
32:18 do not fear nor be afraid of them,
32:21 for the Lord your God,
32:23 He is the One who goes with you.
32:27 He will not leave you nor forsake you."
32:30 And you know the context of this was
32:32 when the Israelites were traveling.
32:34 And Moses was passing off the scene.
32:37 He was passing the mantle to Joshua.
32:40 And Joshua was going to be
32:41 the one that was now responsible
32:42 for the direction of Israel.
32:44 And they were going to meet with the Canaanites,
32:46 the Hittites, the Jebusites, the Amorites, the Hivites,
32:49 Jebusites, all the ites.
32:51 You know, they're going to have a whole lot of fear ites.
32:54 And he said, don't worry about it.
32:56 The Lord is going to be with you.
32:57 He will never leave you. He'll never forsake you.
33:00 Now let's take that for a moment
33:01 and start injecting that into today.
33:03 Let's take that for a moment and inject that,
33:05 He will not leave you nor forsake you.
33:07 Even when you're living the fear,
33:10 there are too...
33:11 You can find yourself
33:12 in moments of really bad situations
33:16 and it's hard to keep that fear down.
33:19 Bad things can happen to you.
33:21 And in that fear, in that time, God does not leave you,
33:25 He does not forsake you. So whatever your...
33:29 He walks through you through that horrible thing,
33:33 whatever it is,
33:34 and so even though yours may be...
33:37 Anxiety?
33:39 Right, He can help,
33:40 if you will turn to Him in that moment,
33:44 He can give you a piece of even...
33:49 Beyond understanding. Beyond. Thank you.
33:51 I have to agree with that
33:53 because Eric knows I struggle with anxiety sometimes.
33:58 And I know that if I trust in the Lord,
34:02 and I ask Him,
34:04 "Please bring peace into my life
34:06 and calm my nerves or whatever
34:08 I'm going through at that moment.
34:10 "He will deliver me
34:12 and He'll take that fear away from me.
34:15 Last night was a prime example.
34:17 Marian shut our power off for like,
34:21 one to five in the morning.
34:22 And in that darkness
34:24 when you're not used to darkness,
34:26 there's a fear.
34:27 And I immediately put on my Bible.
34:30 And I was able to go back to sleep
34:32 because it was so dark in the house.
34:34 Yeah, they were doing,
34:35 they were doing maintenance in our neighborhood.
34:37 And it's strange when you're used
34:39 to always hearing a sound like refrigerator
34:42 or something like that, total silence.
34:44 Even the dogs were barking
34:46 and running around, and Marilyn says,
34:49 hey, there's somebody walking around our property
34:50 with a flashlight, you know, and it's a little bit fearful.
34:54 It's real fear. It is.
34:55 Yeah. But we were together.
34:58 So I know everything.
35:00 Is going to be just fine because I'm not going to
35:01 let anything happen to Marilyn,
35:03 and she's not going to let anything happen to me.
35:04 But God was with you too, turn into your Bible.
35:06 Right.
35:08 Yeah, I took Shane out
35:11 and I told Eric I went and I woke him up.
35:13 I said, "Babe, somebody, I saw a flashlight."
35:16 He just said, "Okay."
35:20 Okay, so I'm the only one that's afraid.
35:23 But I knew that we were okay.
35:24 I just think it's interesting
35:26 that sometimes the Lord is silent.
35:28 And it's almost like He's trying to test our faith.
35:32 He goes silent because He wants to draw us to Him.
35:37 And that silent time is an interesting time
35:40 because a lot of people, even the Israelites,
35:43 they lose their faith during that time.
35:45 They start to act up,
35:47 they start to do things that they wouldn't normally do.
35:49 I remember, Moses was up
35:51 on the mountain and the children of Israel,
35:53 they went berserk
35:54 because Moses didn't come back down.
35:55 They lost, they totally lost their faith.
35:57 So the important thing
35:59 even today is, like you said Dee,
36:03 when fear comes, remember, God is still with you.
36:06 It's a time of testing. That's what it is.
36:09 And we don't want to start rioting in the streets
36:11 and going crazy, because that's a lack of faith.
36:14 It's believing the Bible verse
36:16 that He will not leave you nor forsake you,
36:18 whether you can feel Him or not.
36:21 Stand on the Word
36:22 because the Word will never fail you.
36:26 So if God says He's with you, He's with you,
36:29 whether you can see Him or not.
36:32 Let's look at... Let's go to Exodus 14.
36:33 Let's look at a real story in the Bible,
36:35 where these fears were very palpable,
36:38 you know, palpable, that kind of darkness
36:40 that you talked about Exodus Chapter 14.
36:42 We're going to look at verse 10,
36:44 because this describes
36:46 the freeing of the Israelites from Egypt.
36:50 And as they're leaving Egypt, those who were ex...
36:54 I should say extricated delivered by God.
36:58 Think, wow, I'm glad we're out of there.
37:01 I'm so glad we're done.
37:02 Four hundred years of that is enough, let's just go.
37:05 But now start with verse 10, Honey.
37:08 "When Pharaoh drew near,
37:09 the children of Israel lifted their eyes, and behold,
37:14 the Egyptians marched after them.
37:17 So they were very afraid,
37:19 and the children of Israel cried out to the Lord."
37:23 Okay, they cried out to the Lord,
37:24 when you look at this cried out to the Lord,
37:27 it wasn't cried it to Lord,
37:28 they're saying, Lord, okay, help us.
37:30 It was like, Lord, why did You bring us out here?
37:32 Because look at the next verse, read that one too, Honey.
37:35 "Then they said to Moses,
37:37 'Because there were no graves in Egypt,
37:39 have you taken us away to die in the wilderness?
37:43 Why have you so dealt with us, to bring us up out of Egypt?'"
37:49 And then, Marilyn, look at verse 12.
37:51 "Is this not the word that we were told you in Egypt,
37:55 saying, 'Let us alone
37:57 that we may serve the Egyptians?'
37:59 For it would have been better for us
38:01 to serve the Egyptians
38:04 than that we should die in the wilderness.'"
38:06 Okay, now I want to make a comment
38:08 about this kind of a fear.
38:09 Because this is where the world is headed.
38:12 The world is headed to the place
38:14 where the freedom that the Lord
38:15 brought to the Israelites was to worship Him.
38:19 And when you decide to worship God,
38:20 the devil is not going to let you alone
38:22 because Pharaoh pursued them, he came after them.
38:25 Let me make a point
38:26 to those of you who are Christians,
38:28 those of you who serve the Lord,
38:29 the world is changing.
38:30 We're talking about the present climate of the world.
38:32 We can see the racial inequality,
38:34 the riots, the picketing,
38:36 protests that turned into straight out fights
38:40 and buildings being burned and people mixing
38:42 in with the quiet protests to cause anarchy.
38:45 It's just such a...
38:46 It's a concoction of unpredictability,
38:49 it's a mess.
38:50 While people are saying, please give me my rights
38:51 and other people say,
38:53 we don't have rights unless we give it to you.
38:54 All this concoction
38:56 is similar to what happened to the Israelites
38:58 because for 400 years there they were
38:59 in bondage under the, you know,
39:01 the unalterable hand of Pharaoh,
39:05 God frees them.
39:06 And then He frees them
39:08 and because of fear, they say, you know what?
39:12 It would have been better if you just left us
39:14 where we were.
39:15 Well, you know what? Let me make the point,
39:17 from bondage and fear to freedom and Jesus,
39:21 the devil is going to test you along the way.
39:24 So the devil, so let's see what happened in the test.
39:27 Because the devil is going to test you
39:28 from the bondage of sin, to the freedom in Jesus,
39:31 the devil is going to come after you
39:33 in the middle of that.
39:34 I love verse 13, which is the next verse.
39:37 Go ahead, read it for us.
39:39 And basically what Moses says is,
39:41 "Hey, chill out."
39:44 I like that.
39:45 He says, verse 13, "And Moses said to the people,
39:48 'Do not be afraid.
39:50 Stand still
39:51 and see the salvation of the Lord,
39:54 which He will accomplish for you today.
39:56 For the Egyptians whom you see today,
39:59 you shall see again no more forever.'"
40:02 Wow! Okay.
40:04 Don't forget 14. Go ahead, Dee.
40:07 "The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace."
40:11 So He said, don't riot.
40:13 Don't lose control, stand still.
40:17 And let the Lord be your salvation.
40:19 And don't forget 15.
40:22 "And the Lord said to Moses, 'Why do you cry to Me?
40:25 Tell the children of Israel to go forward.'"
40:29 Isn't that beautiful? Two words, what are they?
40:32 You have a sermon title.
40:33 I have a sermon title called Go Forward
40:34 which was based on this particular story.
40:36 And when you cannot see
40:38 the road ahead of you, go forward.
40:39 Now for those of you, you've driven
40:41 across the country, haven't you?
40:43 Oh, yes, many times. We have also.
40:46 So we are travelers. All of us here.
40:48 When you leave Orlando, you cannot see California.
40:51 You got to go forward. Right?
40:54 When you left California to drive here, did you see?
40:56 Did you see tower where you go? What did you do?
40:58 I've gone both directions.
40:59 You can't see the end of the road.
41:01 That's true. You got to keep what?
41:03 Going forward. We got to keep going forward.
41:04 Any challenges... Because you follow the roadmap.
41:09 I'm sorry I jumped the gun. You are right on target.
41:12 We had a map when we left LA. We knew where New York was.
41:17 Okay. Tell them again.
41:18 God gave me a map when I came out of bondage.
41:22 When I left Egypt, He gave me a map
41:25 so that I could get to Him.
41:28 But people tend to really have more fear
41:32 of the unknown than the fear
41:35 that they live with that they know,
41:37 which is so sad.
41:39 You know, Marilyn, you made a point that
41:40 I want to amplify this whole, this palpable darkness.
41:43 When we first,
41:44 remember when we first moved to Castroville.
41:46 Oh, because we came from New York,
41:48 you know, not too long before that.
41:50 And when we were in bed, it was too dark for us outside.
41:54 We're used to street lights, right Eric?
41:56 That's right. Street lights in our room.
41:57 Some Sounds,.
41:59 Sounds, ambulance, I had to hear a siren.
42:02 I was like, I cannot sleep
42:04 there's another siren passing by.
42:06 It drove me nuts. I had to sleep.
42:09 Imagine, I could sleep
42:10 when there's a siren, how weird is that?
42:12 In New York, oh, you know that
42:13 the streetlights coming through,
42:15 there's street light, hard door slamming.
42:16 I was raised with street lights in my window.
42:18 And other noises. Police cars, ambulance.
42:21 Beep, beep, I have to hear beep.
42:23 There's not been one single person
42:25 that moved here from a huge big city
42:28 that couldn't sleep for about at least a month.
42:30 Someone that took two or three or six months to adjust to...
42:35 I remember CA same and he said. Oh, yeah.
42:38 He said, he told, he told his wife Irma,
42:40 he said, "Hey, Boo, it's too quiet."
42:43 Boo, it's too quiet. Too quiet.
42:44 It's quiet.
42:46 I mean, nothing but cornfields all around you.
42:48 And now, when we hear any sounds, first of all,
42:50 I'm just kind of put this back to the story.
42:53 It was too dark for you. But you know what now?
42:56 How do I like to sleep now?
42:57 Total black dark, nothing. No, nothing.
43:00 Even if a light from the,
43:02 there's anything the radio, a little red light, he covers.
43:04 I cover with a cloth.
43:06 That's me.. You did the same thing?
43:07 Yeah, yeah. Look at our New Yorker.
43:09 Now we like it in total dark. I love it.
43:12 And a siren will bring you out of a sound sleep.
43:15 I mean, but I could hear so, I mean, come on now.
43:19 How could I not hear very well.
43:21 But so the whole point of it,
43:22 and I want you to just end the story
43:24 because we're not going to go through the whole thing,
43:25 but verse 30 and 31.
43:27 Okay, look at verse 30 and 31.
43:29 Marilyn, I don't know if you've read that.
43:32 "So the Lord saved Israel
43:34 that day out of the hand of the Egyptians,
43:38 and Israel saw the Egyptians dead on the seashore.
43:43 Thus Israel saw the great work
43:45 which the Lord had done in Egypt,
43:47 so the people feared the Lord, and believed the Lord
43:50 and His servant Moses."
43:52 Now the reason I wanted to read that
43:54 because first they fear the Egyptians.
43:56 Now they fear the Lord.
43:58 See, the second one was not like the first one.
44:00 Different fear. Different type of fear.
44:03 You're right, Dee.
44:04 So what kind was a second one then?
44:06 The second one was awe
44:07 that God could deliver, He could,
44:10 when He spoke was solid, you could stand on it,
44:13 you could depend on it.
44:14 God's word speaks and it is.
44:17 So if He tells you something, you can take what do they say,
44:21 take it to the bank.
44:23 Amen. Yeah, nothing.
44:24 And look at Isaiah 35:4.
44:26 Read that one first, Honey, Isaiah 35:4.
44:29 "Say to those who are fearful-hearted,
44:34 'Be strong and do not fear!
44:36 Behold, your God will come with vengeance,
44:40 with the recompense of God, He will come and save you."
44:43 Okay, so that was a situation with the Egyptians.
44:46 The Egyptians put fear in the Israelites,
44:49 but the God of the Israelites put fear in the Egyptians,
44:52 and then the Israelites had fear for God.
44:54 Notice three different kinds of fear.
44:56 I'm afraid of them, but now they're afraid of God.
44:59 And now we awe God.
45:02 When you see what God can do,
45:04 and this is the thing that I like to stand still,
45:06 when you see what God can do, you think to yourself.
45:10 But, Honey, it's by experience, right?
45:12 When you see how God has helped you
45:14 in your life, how He has delivered.
45:17 We learned from those experiences,
45:18 don't we?
45:20 He's done it before.
45:21 He'll do it again, as the song says, you know.
45:24 And I, and it's a choice sometimes.
45:26 Yes.
45:27 If I have decided to choose to believe this Word,
45:33 and I made a decision not to be fearful.
45:38 Now, I just said, are we on smooth cliff?
45:40 Of course, not. I'm a human being.
45:42 Fear can rise up in me some time.
45:44 But if I go to the Word,
45:46 and I remember my commitment,
45:49 it becomes easier and easier.
45:51 And sometimes even when I have peace,
45:53 I know that Satan is still,
45:55 there's that little underlying Satan trying to,
45:59 oh no, no, no, you should be scared right now.
46:02 No, Lord, I'm going to depend on You
46:05 and so making that choice of saying,
46:08 "I am not going to live my life fearful."
46:11 And I realized that there's people you know,
46:13 maybe widows like me or like you said,
46:15 living alone or out, you're in situations
46:18 where there's real reason to have certain fear.
46:23 But if you make that decision,
46:24 I am not going to be a fearful person.
46:27 And you, but you're not fearful
46:29 because of your leaning on the Lord, not on yourself.
46:33 Then you can overcome. Amen.
46:36 I think this whole chapter is encouraging.
46:40 Because regardless of whatever,
46:42 whatever you're going through any suffering,
46:44 whatever fear you have, that ultimately,
46:48 God has a better place for us.
46:51 This is just temporary. Satan plays on that fear.
46:54 He really does.
46:55 He makes things bigger than it should.
46:57 It is, it's like, and it's not as bad.
47:00 What do you have in your hand?
47:02 I'm in John 16:33,
47:08 because all of us want peace, right?
47:10 We want peace in our homes, our hearts, in our church,
47:15 and this is just beautiful.
47:17 And, Dee, you read the blue box when we're done, okay?
47:20 'Cause we're doing Zoom.
47:23 In John 16:33, he says
47:26 "These things I have spoken to you,
47:28 that in Me you may have peace.
47:32 In the world you will have tribulation,
47:35 but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world."
47:39 Dee? The way already prepared.
47:42 By passing over the ground which man must travel.
47:46 Our Lord has prepared the way for us to overcome.
47:49 It is not his will that we should be
47:51 placed at a disadvantage in the conflict with Satan.
47:55 He would not have us intimidated
47:58 and discouraged by the assaults of the serpent
48:01 and you will be assaulted, so.
48:05 Have you been assaulted before by Satan?
48:07 Absolutely. Let's see.
48:09 It's been what? Five minutes?
48:11 Satan.
48:12 If you're walking with the Lord,
48:14 he's on you all the time.
48:17 Matter of fact, sometimes I'm like,
48:20 I don't feel attacked.
48:24 It's like... Was reloading his gun.
48:27 It's like, oh my goodness, so.
48:28 I think it's interesting
48:30 that the Lord does not promise us
48:32 that it's going to be easy.
48:34 He actually promises us
48:35 that there's going to be difficulties and tribulations.
48:38 But He says, "Be of good cheer."
48:41 And one of the things I always keep in mind
48:43 is that all of these experiences,
48:45 they make you stronger in the end,
48:47 all of these experiences build faith,
48:49 it builds character.
48:51 I remember when I went to college,
48:53 my first college in Long Island,
48:55 and you had two groups of people.
48:58 You had the rich kids and you had the poor kids.
49:02 You had the rich kids
49:03 who got the Camaro's and all that stuff.
49:05 And then you had the poor kids
49:06 who are driving the Volkswagen Beetle
49:08 that was smoking down the road just to get the college
49:10 and they were working,
49:12 you know, all day evening during the evenings
49:14 just to pay their way through school.
49:16 And the one thing that I noticed
49:17 about the two groups
49:19 was that one group was very kind of arrogant,
49:22 and they didn't have a lot of character.
49:24 They were real simple.
49:26 And the other group
49:27 that had to work their way through college,
49:30 you know, didn't have it all provided for them.
49:32 They had a strength and a character
49:33 that you really wanted to hang out
49:35 with those kids rather than the rich kids
49:38 because one was strong.
49:39 You saw the strength in them.
49:41 And the other one was born
49:43 with a silver spoon in their mouth
49:44 if I could use that term.
49:46 They got everything. Wow.
49:47 Yes. So our trial strengthens us...
49:48 And character builds, it builds our character.
49:50 That's right.
49:52 It's like a weight that if you don't lift it,
49:55 you're not going to get stronger
49:56 and the stronger you get,
49:57 the heavier the next weight has to be.
49:59 So think about that, that's what trials are,
50:01 they are weights of life.
50:03 That's why when the Lord talks about freedom
50:04 lay aside every weight.
50:06 Daniel also was in a situation like this.
50:08 Let's look at Daniel 10 and 19. Go back to the outline there.
50:12 I'm sorry, Daniel what?
50:13 Daniel, it's in our outline number seven.
50:15 Okay. Daniel 10:19.
50:17 When Daniel was afraid about the future,
50:19 what was he told?
50:21 I love that, greatly beloved. Daniel 10:19.
50:27 And he said,
50:28 "O man greatly beloved, fear not!
50:32 Peace be to you, be strong, yes, be strong!"
50:36 For when you spoke to me I was strengthened, and said,
50:41 "Let my lord speak, for you have strengthened me."
50:45 You know what that's saying?
50:46 Daniel is saying until you started
50:48 talking to me, I didn't really feel that good.
50:49 Keep going. That's in essence what he said.
50:53 When you started speaking to me,
50:54 I started feeling good.
50:56 Yes. In other words, keep going.
50:57 Keep going.
50:59 It's like, have you ever felt that way
51:00 when somebody came to you, let's talk about that.
51:03 Marilyn, have you ever had a moment
51:04 where you needed somebody to talk to you
51:06 and when they came and spoke to you later on,
51:09 you said, "You know, I needed that."
51:11 I have.
51:13 You've had those, anything you could recall,
51:14 you don't have to tell us the situation.
51:19 I can't recall off the top of my head,
51:21 but I know I've had them where there's been moments
51:24 where it's like, oh, I'm so glad.
51:26 I know that.
51:28 I've heard some of your sermons where I think I've texted you
51:31 and Angie, saying, Pastor, I needed to hear that today.
51:35 So yeah, sure. And words of encouragement.
51:40 I know we had one with Linda Lynch before.
51:43 She was so encouraging.
51:45 Linda has been,
51:46 sometimes you have those people in your life
51:49 that just encourage you,
51:50 you know, and we were going through a years ago,
51:53 a difficult time
51:54 and we called her and she just encouraged us.
51:57 Good family member. Good family member.
52:00 I know one time in my life,
52:02 it was actually right before I came to 3ABN.
52:04 We were going through some situations.
52:07 And I was still working for this company.
52:10 And I was really, really impressed that
52:13 the Lord wanted us to do something,
52:15 He wanted us to move.
52:17 It was time.
52:18 And I kept hearing this voice in my head.
52:20 And it was, I'm sitting in meetings,
52:23 and I just hear it's time.
52:26 And after a while, I got really upset
52:28 because I kept hearing this over like two weeks,
52:29 it's time, it's time.
52:31 I said, Lord, it's time for what?
52:32 You know, I had a really
52:34 down to earth in prayer with Him.
52:35 And what ended up happening was 3ABN ended up calling
52:39 and we ended up coming to work at 3ABN.
52:41 And here's the thing, when God calls you,
52:45 there's a silence
52:46 but when He calls you, you're overjoyed.
52:48 You're like, wow, this is awesome.
52:51 God, I see. I see what You were planning.
52:53 When I was getting frustrated when there was a silence.
52:56 Suddenly you call on,
52:57 it's like your dog when you call your dog
52:58 his tail starts wagging and he comes running,
53:01 comes running towards you.
53:02 It's kind of like that.
53:03 So when I heard, when I read here,
53:05 and he said, be strong.
53:07 So when He spoke to me, I was strengthened.
53:11 That same thing happened to me. You know, we were down.
53:13 We were in the middle of a trial
53:15 and suddenly the Lord called, and I was strengthened.
53:18 You know, now I'm on a mission, and I understand.
53:21 So, yeah.
53:23 God blessed him to almost everyone
53:25 when he brings him here, because I was in that period
53:28 of mourning after David was lost.
53:30 And so I don't, I remember being at peace with the Lord.
53:35 But He wasn't telling me where to go and what to do.
53:38 It was like I was just resting or something.
53:41 But then when He called me to 3ABN,
53:43 and there was absolutely no, I mean, it was very,
53:46 He was very obvious, right?
53:48 So when God does call you
53:50 with encouraging words that it's going to be okay.
53:54 And then He puts people in your life
53:56 like Mollie was very encouraging.
53:59 Yes, yes. So He gives us people.
54:02 We need to encourage each other.
54:05 And that happens.
54:07 The Lord's always on time,
54:09 I just want to inject one scripture here that
54:11 tends to go against the grain because so far
54:14 we've experienced the fact that well,
54:16 when Israel was in trouble, God delivered them,
54:18 whenever Israel had difficulty, God was with them.
54:20 But there is a future coming where there is going to be
54:22 some difficulty coming.
54:24 And I want to encourage you with a real, real picture
54:27 of where we're headed.
54:28 Look at Revelation 2:10,
54:29 it's the last scripture in our page.
54:31 But then we're going to follow that up with Isaiah 45:22.
54:36 I'll read this one and it says, "Do not fear those things."
54:39 And this is what the Lord told that to growing church,
54:42 the brand new church.
54:44 He was saying, as the church was developing,
54:46 "Do not fear any of those things
54:49 which you are about to suffer.
54:51 Indeed, the devil is about
54:54 to throw some of you into prison,
54:56 that you may be tested."
54:58 Angie always says, it's always about a test.
55:00 Life is a test.
55:01 "And you will have tribulation ten days,"
55:04 but what does it say?
55:05 "Be faithful unto death,
55:08 and I will give you the crown of life."
55:10 Some people are afraid of,
55:11 one of the fears is fear of death.
55:13 As a Christian, that's a fear that the Lord
55:15 wants to take away from us.
55:16 Because for the Christian,
55:18 that's just a rest, it's not the end.
55:20 That's just a sleep.
55:22 You know, and that's why Revelation says
55:24 they love not their lives unto the death.
55:26 They overcame them by the blood of the Lamb.
55:28 They did not love their lives into the death.
55:30 And so it's going to...
55:32 The future is coming,
55:33 it's going to get tougher before it gets easier.
55:35 You remember,
55:37 when you go through the valley of the shadow of death,
55:40 He's with you,
55:41 but after the valley of the shadow of death,
55:42 on the other side of that the end of the journey is,
55:45 we dwell in the house of the Lord
55:46 for how long?
55:48 Forever.
55:49 Now, what do we do in those times?
55:50 Isaiah 45:22. Isaiah 45:22.
55:55 Isaiah 45:22, "Look to Me,
55:58 and be saved, all you ends of the earth!
56:01 For I am God, and there is no other."
56:04 Amen.
56:06 And He said I'm God and I am God
56:07 and there is none like me.
56:09 The next passage after that, I'm God and there is no other.
56:12 So are we facing the unknown future?
56:14 All of us but by unknown God. Okay, okay.
56:18 That's my wife.
56:19 We've been married long enough, she know where I'm going.
56:21 Yes, unknown for us,
56:23 but it's known for God, He knows.
56:25 So, Honey, as we're winding down,
56:26 Isaiah 26:3.
56:28 Now I know those of you probably saying
56:30 when is my scripture coming up?
56:31 Here it is.
56:33 This is the stamp that gets fear mailed back
56:38 and faith takes its place.
56:40 "You will keep him in perfect peace,
56:44 whose mind is stayed on You,
56:47 because he trusts in You."
56:50 That's right. Ten seconds, Dee.
56:52 What do you do your fear?
56:54 Trust in the Lord with all your heart.
56:57 With all your heart. Yeah, Proverbs 3:5.
56:59 Well, I was looking for the Psalms one.
57:01 I had it right here but that's okay, Psalms 37:3,
57:05 "Trust in the Lord and do good,
57:07 dwell in the land and feed on His faithfulness."
57:10 Ten seconds, Eric?
57:12 Love the Lord with all your heart
57:13 and He will protect you.
57:15 That's right, Marilyn three seconds.
57:18 Trust God. Trust God.
57:20 That's right.
57:21 I tell you friends,
57:23 we do face a fearful future but with a fearless God.
57:27 Our prayer for you is that you trust God with your life
57:29 and when fear comes, call on the Lord
57:32 and He will keep you in perfect peace.
57:34 Happy Sabbath.
57:35 We look forward to seeing you once again.


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