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Crisis Intervention For Older Adults

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Participants: Stephen Campbell

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00:38 Hello, and welcome to "Wonderfully Made"
00:42 Today's topic is "Crisis Intervention for Older Adults"
00:49 My name is Dr. Stephen Campbell
00:51 and I will be your host for today
00:55 It is easy to say that crisis is part of our world...
01:00 A number of things that are happening all around us
01:03 that are creating an awful lot of stress
01:05 for each and every one of us...
01:08 However, older adults also experience crises,
01:13 and some of them are different from that of younger individuals
01:18 It is said that as you get older,
01:21 the amount of knowledge that you have acquired
01:25 determines how you adjust to life.
01:27 But in spite of the knowledge that older adults may have
01:31 when faced with serious emotional problems,
01:34 or conflicts, they do end up having feelings
01:41 and doubts about themselves...
01:43 that, at times, may lead to suicide.
01:46 It is safe to say that suicide is the ultimate crisis...
01:53 And that once a person starts having suicide ideation,
01:57 we have to take that very seriously.
02:00 We also know that suicide tends to increase with age
02:05 ...so that one of the highest groups of individuals
02:09 who commit suicide are those 65 years of age and older.
02:16 Some startling statistics also show that
02:20 men, age 85 years of age and older,
02:23 are the ones most at risk.
02:27 In the year 2001, over 5,393 individuals
02:34 committed suicide in the United States over the age of 65
02:41 That number seems to be quite a bit.
02:43 Since these figures are usually estimated based on
02:48 information that's given that can authentically say
02:51 it was a suicide.
02:53 Many times, there are deaths that are suicide in nature
02:57 but they have been determined to be accidental.
03:03 It is very important for us to understand some of the
03:07 things that adults go through,
03:10 and also as they get older...
03:11 what impact it may have on their lives.
03:15 The study showed that as many as 90% of all the suicides
03:21 of individuals over the age of 65 seem to be as a result of
03:27 mental illness, or substance abuse.
03:33 It is not safe to say that all people who commit suicide
03:37 are mentally ill.
03:39 But, most of them do have some of the same mental health
03:44 feelings that someone who is mentally ill has when they
03:50 become suicidal.
03:54 Our older adults do experience an awful lot of stress
03:59 that's different, and we have to address those
04:03 if we need to understand ways and means of keeping them alive.
04:09 The fact that many of these individuals commit suicide
04:12 who are mentally ill is safe to say that...
04:17 not being diagnosed and a lack of treatment
04:21 for these particular problems can be a major risk factor
04:25 for suicide ideation.
04:28 Once an individual is depressed, if it's not treated,
04:32 that depression can lead them to experience feelings of
04:35 hopelessness, worthlessness, and certainly can prevent them
04:40 from having a meaningful life.
04:43 Most individuals who are age 65 and over,
04:46 have lived a long life, and are looking forward to retirement
04:51 If, in reviewing the past, they end up feeling a sense of
04:54 accomplishment, or sense of worth,
04:57 then the life starts to become very unmanageable
05:02 and they start seeing life as being meaningless,
05:05 and start having a lot of depressed feelings.
05:09 These individuals are also considered at risk.
05:14 One of the things that we have to pay strict attention to
05:17 is substance abuse.
05:20 As you know, untreated substance abuse
05:23 can be a major risk factor for suicide.
05:27 One of the reasons that it's true is because
05:31 people who are older feel somewhat out of place
05:35 when they go for substance abuse treatment.
05:39 When we think of substance abuse,
05:41 we think of young adults and teenagers who abuse
05:45 illicit drugs such as marijuana and cocaine.
05:51 However, older adults do have a problem with
05:54 substance abuse as well.
05:56 The major difference between the users and the non-users
06:01 is the fact that older adults tend to abuse prescription drugs
06:08 and over-the-counter drugs.
06:12 As a result of that, many times the disorder is not diagnosed
06:18 and people are not aware that they are experiencing difficulty
06:21 with substance abuse.
06:24 Now in the United states, we value life,
06:27 and suicide is not something that is popular.
06:31 And, we strongly believe that we are designed to be preserved
06:37 and to live a long life... and that life belongs to God.
06:41 This view is not held all around the world...
06:44 However, as people get older, they become more at risk
06:50 simply because physical illness sets in,
06:56 and not all are able to deal with the physical illness
06:59 that they have, or the pain that they may endure.
07:03 As a matter of fact, of all the people who commit suicide,
07:07 most of them seem to have a physical illness,
07:10 either divorce, or widowed...
07:13 and as such, loneliness sets in.
07:17 Loneliness is a very, very important factor
07:20 in evaluating suicidal behavior.
07:23 Women seem to handle loneliness much better than men.
07:27 For whatever reason, once man gets to the point where he feels
07:32 he has to live by himself, and that his life has no
07:36 meaning, and that his family and friends no longer care for him
07:41 ...he does not see any reason to continue.
07:46 This is why, if you look at suicide deaths,
07:49 85% of the deaths of older individuals are
07:54 age of 85 years of age, and older.
07:58 The group that is the most vulnerable,
08:01 are white males over the age of 85.
08:06 Let us look at some of the risk factors that are
08:10 associated with suicide for individuals who are
08:17 65 years of age and older...
08:56 Let us speak about these first risk factors for a few minutes.
09:02 It is very important to know that depression
09:06 and mental illness, if it's left untreated,
09:11 can lead to serious consequences
09:14 Remember that depression is something that caused the
09:19 person to withdraw from society,
09:21 caused them to lose appetite,
09:23 caused the person to have sleeping disorders,
09:27 causing the person to have feelings of worthlessness,
09:30 hopelessness, and also make them feel as though
09:35 life is not meaningful.
09:39 Keeping in mind that most of these individuals over 65
09:42 may have some physical ailment,
09:45 and as they get older, these ailments become more of an issue
09:49 Many times, they feel that life is not worth it because
09:53 of the aches and pain...
09:55 so that we have to make sure that depression is something
09:59 that is dealt with on a regular basis.
10:02 The other factor here is a matter of looking at some
10:05 of the family dynamics.
10:07 If the person is not connected with their family,
10:11 and they are unable to feel a sense of worth,
10:15 that can cause serious problems
10:18 and can also encourage the person to think of
10:21 committing suicide.
10:23 Physical abuse and sexual abuse is something
10:28 that, unless it's dealt with, can come back
10:33 to create some problems for you later in life.
10:36 As you know, during the stage of 65 and older,
10:40 most people tend to reminisce
10:42 and think of what their life has been over the years.
10:45 And if they can go through that process
10:47 and feel a sense of accomplishment,
10:49 feel good about who they are and what they have accomplished
10:52 then that's okay...
10:54 But if life has not been very fulfilling,
10:57 and these thoughts of being abused tend to surface,
11:00 that can be a trigger that can cause the person
11:04 to have experience of suicide ideation as well.
11:07 Let us continue to look at some of the other factors
11:10 that are important here...
11:34 Let us spend a few minutes talking about these risk factors
11:38 I think it's very important for us to keep in mind
11:42 that an individual who has a history of mental illness...
11:47 especially depression, is always at risk because these are the
11:53 individuals who will start experiencing feelings of
11:57 worthlessness, helplessness, will start to withdraw
12:00 from society, spend most of the time by themselves,
12:04 and, as a result of that, the depression is going to continue
12:08 to persist.
12:10 If the depression is untreated, it can certainly put the person
12:15 more at risk.
12:17 If the individual also has a substance abuse problem,
12:20 that is also a major risk factor...
12:23 since we know that most people use drugs and alcohol
12:27 and over-the-counter medication
12:29 to buffer the unpleasant feelings that they have.
12:32 Many times, these are not caught by physicians,
12:37 and family members because the person does not
12:41 come out in the open intoxicated...
12:43 Most of the time, this is a very private thing...
12:48 If there's a family history of suicide,
12:50 it does not mean that there's a genetic component to that...
12:54 But sometimes, a family member may imitate another
12:58 because it becomes a coping style that is accepted...
13:03 so that if one family member commits suicide,
13:06 we have to make sure that if someone else is depressed,
13:10 or having suicide ideation, will not try to
13:15 do the same thing as their family member.
13:19 If there's family maltreatment, where they have been
13:24 abused as a child, or being abused as an elderly
13:28 which happens to be a problem within our society - elder-abuse
13:32 That person may become very depressed,
13:35 and also may become suicidal.
13:39 Loneliness is such a big issue... that we have to
13:43 pay very strict attention
13:44 to those who are living by themselves.
13:48 It is said that as many as 60% of physician visits
13:52 are because of loneliness, and not because of
13:56 any major medical problem that the elderly may have.
14:00 There are some additional factors that we are to take
14:03 into consideration... that we should address at this point
14:08 Let us look at some of the other risk factors...
14:33 Now these last few factors are very important,
14:36 and should be looked at seriously if we are going to
14:40 really help those who are struggling with suicide ideation
14:46 Now loneliness, hopelessness, certainly are symptoms
14:51 of depression, and most of us can identify with those.
14:55 It does not mean that feeling lonely or hopeless
14:59 necessarily means that the person is going to
15:02 commit suicide.
15:04 But, if this is prolonged, and the person is unable
15:07 to come out of those feelings, then that certainly
15:10 will be a major risk factor.
15:13 Another important one here is the fact that many people
15:18 who are thinking of suicide tend to look at the lethal means
15:24 that they can use...
15:26 if that person has access to lethal means...
15:30 Maybe having a gun at home, or enough medication that
15:34 can kill themselves, and they are easily accessible
15:38 ...That would certainly put the person at more risk.
15:41 It is so important that we pay attention to the elderly
15:45 because many times they are left unattended,
15:50 and as a result of that, people are not aware of
15:53 what they're thinking, or what they're feeling.
15:57 There are a number of protective factors that can help
16:00 individuals look at life more meaningfully,
16:03 and not contemplate suicide.
16:05 We are going to spend a few minutes looking at some of
16:08 the protective factors now...
16:34 Let us spend a few minutes talking about this...
16:37 It is true as we become older, we tend to become more religious
16:42 and that's good!
16:44 The more religious the person becomes, the more they
16:48 are able to utilize their cultural values and beliefs,
16:53 the more connected they would feel with society.
16:59 Also, if the person is able to feel a sense of connectedness
17:07 that will allow them to feel as though their life has meaning
17:11 Most of the time, as the person gets older,
17:15 and becomes more frail, they feel that they've become
17:19 a burden to the caretakers...
17:22 especially if they're living at home.
17:25 It's very important that family members
17:27 make the older individuals feel welcome,
17:30 and that their input in life is important to them.
17:35 As a person gets older, they're supposed to have
17:38 a lot of knowledge that can be shared for all ages...
17:42 and there are many ways we can use that knowledge
17:44 to help that person feel as though they're
17:48 making a contribution.
17:50 Let us look at some additional factors here that can help us
17:53 preserve life...
18:16 As you can see, these protective factors are very important.
18:23 To be able to have health professionals who encourage
18:29 you to seek help when you're in need,
18:31 is certainly a protective factor.
18:34 It is so easy to get carried away with the cares
18:37 of this world... that no one listens to what you have to say
18:42 And since the elderly usually have a lot of doctor visits,
18:46 because of loneliness, it's very important that
18:50 some time is spent trying to evaluate what's going on
18:53 in their lives so that appropriate recommendations
18:57 and referrals can be made.
19:00 As you can see, being married is a protective factor...
19:05 This was a divine intervention...
19:09 God made us as human beings to be together
19:14 and when someone lives alone,
19:17 and unable to find things that give their life meaning,
19:21 and having the emotional support of someone,
19:24 this can be a risk factor.
19:27 There is no surprise that most older men
19:31 over 65, who lived many years with their wives,
19:37 after they pass away, do have problems
19:40 staying by themselves.
19:42 This type of behavior actually increases with age...
19:46 So that the older you are, the more at risk you are
19:50 if your spouse should pass away.
19:54 The last risk protective factor that I'm going to talk about is
19:58 good friends!
19:59 Friends are very important, they're lifelong.
20:03 Sad to say, however, as we become older,
20:06 we lose a lot of friends.
20:09 It is the hope that people who are older
20:13 should reach out to form new friends...
20:15 Even though the individuals may be younger than them,
20:18 friendships can be a very good protective factor
20:21 in preventing someone from committing suicide.
20:27 There are a number of warning signs that are crucial
20:31 that we all should pay strict attention to
20:34 if we're going to prevent the elderly from committing suicide.
20:38 Let us spend a few minutes looking at these...
21:08 Let us spend a few minutes
21:09 talking about these warning signs...
21:15 Once the person starts to move away
21:21 from friends and family, they no longer want to come to dinner
21:28 They no longer want to spend time with the children...
21:32 They are no longer interested in their hobbies,
21:36 and activities that they were used to...
21:39 that is a very important sign that the person
21:43 is experiencing some major problems.
21:47 Another important sign that the person is not doing very well
21:52 is when they stop taking their medication...
21:56 Some of these medications are designed to sustain life
22:01 and if the person stops taking these medications,
22:04 it means that their life is going to be shortened.
22:08 If the person starts to keep medication that if used
22:13 in large numbers, would commit suicide,
22:16 that is also a warning sign that the person is having
22:20 some difficulty dealing with life.
22:24 Many of the elderly experience some difficulty
22:28 with sleeping and eating.
22:31 However, when the person starts to get depressed
22:35 to the point where they feel suicidal,
22:38 those eating and sleeping habits also change...
22:42 You may find a lot more sleeping and a lot LESS eating...
22:46 or you may find the person eating a lot,
22:49 and staying up awake most of the night.
22:53 It is very important to monitor the sleeping and eating habits
22:56 of the elderly, especially when they're depressed.
23:01 Another warning sign is when the person
23:05 starts to make statements such as...
23:08 "I'm not going to be around anymore. "
23:12 "I'm very tired with this world. "
23:15 "Nobody cares about me. "
23:17 "I wish I was dead. "
23:20 These kind of verbal statements are what you call
23:24 "high risk statements" that we need to take
23:28 very careful attention to
23:31 if we're going to preserve this life.
23:33 The elderly will not always tell you things,
23:38 but lots of times, their nonverbal behavior can give you
23:42 a lot of subtle messages.
23:45 How do we help someone who is having
23:47 all of these warning signs and symptoms?
23:50 Well the first thing we need to do is to talk to them...
23:55 We need to know exactly what they are thinking...
23:57 what they are feeling...
23:59 We should not try to be judgmental,
24:04 to tell them how to feel...
24:06 to tell them that they should not think about suicide
24:10 We should not reason with them as to whether or not
24:13 that's a good idea.
24:15 What we have to do, first of all...
24:17 is to listen attentively to what they have to say
24:20 Try to let them know that you're here to help them
24:24 and you're going to stand by their side no matter what
24:28 to try to find a way to deal with these feelings
24:31 instead of thinking of suicide.
24:36 You want to encourage them to talk about their feelings
24:38 openly and honestly.
24:41 You don't want to minimize their problems
24:45 or MAXIMIZE their problems
24:47 by making it into something that is SO big
24:50 that it cannot be resolved.
24:52 At the early stage of listening to the elderly,
24:56 you want to make sure that you do not try to solve
24:59 the problem... just give them enough time
25:03 to talk about their feelings openly.
25:06 Another thing that you can do
25:08 to help the individual who is in crisis, and contemplating
25:11 suicide, is to be there for them to make sure that
25:15 they are safe.
25:17 You should not leave the person by themselves if you know
25:21 they have a suicidal plan.
25:24 The best way to evaluate the suicidal plan, first of all,
25:27 is to look at the thoughts and feelings.
25:30 Is the person saying to you that they are
25:32 going to kill themselves?
25:33 If the answer to that question is... yes
25:37 then decide if there are means to do so... if there is a plan
25:42 You want to look at the history...
25:44 Do they have enough social support from family members?
25:47 We know that the more specific the plan,
25:51 and the less the support,
25:52 the HIGHER risk that a person may carry through
25:56 with a suicidal plan.
25:59 You want to make sure that as you talk to the person,
26:02 you do not come across as being judgmental.
26:06 If the person is saying that they are going to commit suicide
26:10 you should not assume that
26:13 they are just saying that for attention.
26:15 You should not "dare" them by saying,
26:16 "You sure that you really want to do this?"
26:19 That type of a statement is daring the person,
26:22 and may actually trigger them
26:23 to do it much sooner than planned.
26:26 Since this is an issue for the elderly,
26:30 over age 65, and this group is the most vulnerable
26:34 it is so important that health professionals, family members
26:39 and friends, keep a close eye on those who live by themselves
26:44 and over the age of 65.
26:47 It's important that we look at some of the reasons why
26:51 the elderly do so.
26:53 In summary, we really should make sure we look at some
26:58 of the risk factors that the elderly are exposed to.
27:02 We know that having a physical illness, living by oneself
27:06 as a result of divorce, or being a widow
27:09 puts the person more at risk.
27:12 We also know that when a person withdraws from
27:15 family, friends and relatives, that that's a serious issue.
27:19 We also know that when the person makes
27:23 the verbal statement that they are going to take their life,
27:27 that we must take that very seriously.
27:31 I strongly recommend that those over age 65 and older
27:37 find the time to form new friendships
27:40 if they have lost their friends.
27:42 Having a strong religious belief,
27:45 having a strong conviction, as far as culture is concerned,
27:48 and belief in God...
27:50 could be one of the MOST powerful protective factors
27:53 in preventing the elderly from hurting themselves.
27:58 I strongly recommend that we reach out to these individuals
28:03 in our daily walk of life...
28:05 And may God bless you as you continue to look at other shows.


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