New Perceptions

How to Become an Influencer: How to Get Along with the Brethren

Three Angels Broadcasting Network

Program transcript

Participants:

Home

Series Code: NP

Program Code: NP211106S


00:13 Happy Sabbath. Happy Sabbath.
00:17 As we sing, I just invite you to stand and join us
00:20 as we sing power in the blood and the rest of songs.
00:33 Would you be free
00:35 From your burden of sin
00:38 There's power in the blood
00:41 Power in the blood
00:44 Would you o'er evil a victory win
00:48 There's wonderful power in the blood
00:53 Sing there is power, power Wonder-working power
00:58 In the blood of the Lamb
01:03 There is power, power Wonder-working power
01:09 In the precious blood of the Lamb
01:25 Would you be free From your passion and pride
01:30 There's power in the blood
01:33 Power in the blood
01:36 Come for a cleansing to Calvary's tide
01:41 There's wonderful power in the blood
01:45 Sing there is power,
01:48 power Wonder-working power
01:51 In the blood of the Lamb
01:56 There is power, power Wonder-working power
02:01 In the precious blood of the Lamb
02:07 Would you be whiter Much whiter than snow
02:12 There's power in the blood Power in the blood
02:18 Sin stains are lost in its life giving flow
02:23 There's wonderful power in the blood
02:27 Sing there is power, power Wonder-working power
02:33 In the blood of the Lamb
02:38 There is power, power Wonder-working power
02:43 In the precious blood of the Lamb
02:49 Would you do service For Jesus your King
02:54 There's power in the blood Power in the blood
03:00 Would you live daily His praises to sing
03:05 There's wonderful power in the blood
03:09 Sing there is power, power Wonder-working power
03:15 In the blood of the Lamb
03:20 There is power, power Wonder-working power
03:25 In the precious blood of the Lamb
03:30 Sing there is power, power Wonder-working power
03:36 In the blood of the Lamb
03:41 Sing there is power, power Wonder-working power
03:46 In the precious blood of the Lamb
03:52 In the precious blood of the Lamb
03:57 In the precious blood In the precious blood
04:03 In the precious blood
04:06 Of the Lamb
04:11 Amen. Amen.
04:31 Who am I that You are mindful of me
04:37 That You hear me
04:41 when I call
04:46 Is it true that You are thinking of me
04:52 How you love me
04:57 It's amazing
04:59 Who am I Who am I
05:02 That You are mindful of me
05:08 That You hear me
05:11 When I call
05:16 Is it true that You are thinking of me
05:23 How you love me
05:27 It's amazing
05:30 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
05:34 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
05:36 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
05:42 He calls me friend
05:45 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
05:51 I am a friend of God
05:55 I am a friend of God He calls me friend
06:01 Who am I Who am
06:03 I that You are mindful of me
06:09 That You hear me
06:13 When I call
06:18 Is it true that You are thinking of me
06:25 How you love me It's amazing
06:29 It's amazing
06:31 It's amazing
06:33 It's amazing It's amazing
06:37 It's amazing
06:42 I am a friend of God
06:46 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
06:52 He calls me friend
06:55 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
06:59 I am a friend of God I am a friend of God
07:05 I am a friend of God
07:07 He calls me friend
07:13 God Almighty
07:17 Lord of Glory
07:21 You have called me friend
07:26 God Almighty
07:29 God Almighty
07:33 Lord of Glory
07:37 You have called me friend
07:42 God Almighty
07:45 God Almighty
07:49 Lord of Glory
07:53 You have called me friend
07:58 God Almighty
08:01 God Almighty
08:05 Lord of Glory
08:09 You have called me friend
08:13 I am a friend of God
08:17 I am a friend of God
08:20 I am a friend of God
08:24 I am a friend of God
08:27 He calls me friend
08:29 I am a friend of God
08:32 I am a friend of God
08:36 I am a friend of God
08:40 I am a friend of God
08:42 He calls me friend
08:44 He calls me friend
08:46 He calls me friend
08:48 He calls me friend
08:50 He calls me friend
08:52 He calls me friend
08:56 He calls me friend
09:18 In the darkness we were waiting
09:22 Without hope without light
09:26 Till from heaven You came running
09:29 There was mercy in Your eyes
09:34 To fulfill the law and prophets
09:37 To a virgin came the Word
09:41 From a throne of endless glory
09:45 To a cradle in the dirt
09:55 Praise the Father
09:59 Praise the Son
10:03 Praise the Spirit
10:06 Three in one
10:10 God of Glory,
10:14 Majesty Praise forever
10:21 to the King of kings
10:30 To reveal the kingdom coming
10:34 And to reconcile the lost
10:38 To redeem the whole creation
10:41 You did not despise the cross
10:45 For even in Your suffering
10:49 You saw to the other side
10:53 Knowing this was our salvation
10:57 Jesus for our sake You died
11:07 Praise the Father
11:11 Praise the Son
11:15 Praise the Spirit
11:18 Three in one
11:22 God of Glory,
11:26 Majesty Praise forever
11:32 To the King of kings
11:42 And the morning that You rose
11:46 All of heaven held its breath
11:50 Till that stone was moved for good
11:53 For the Lamb had conquered death
11:58 And the dead rose from their tombs
12:01 And the angels stood in awe
12:05 For the souls of all who'd come
12:09 To the Father are restored
12:13 And the Church of Christ was born
12:16 Then the Spirit lit the flame
12:20 Now this gospel truth of old
12:23 Shall not kneel shall not faint
12:27 By His blood and in His Name
12:31 In His freedom I am free
12:35 For the love of Jesus Christ
12:38 Who has resurrected me
12:48 Praise the Father
12:52 Praise the Son
12:55 Praise the Spirit
12:59 Three in one
13:03 God of Glory,
13:06 Majesty Praise forever
13:13 To the King of kings
13:18 Praise the Father
13:21 Praise the Son
13:25 Praise the Spirit
13:28 Three in one
13:32 God of Glory, Majesty
13:39 Praise forever
13:42 To the King of kings
13:47 Praise forever
13:50 To the King of kings
13:57 Amen.
14:05 Later when Peter came to Antioch,
14:08 I had a face to face confrontation with him
14:11 because he was clearly out of line.
14:13 Here's a situation.
14:15 Earlier, before certain persons had come from James,
14:19 Peter regularly ate with the non-Jews.
14:23 But when that conservative group came from Jerusalem,
14:26 he cautiously pulled back
14:28 and put as much distance as he could manage
14:30 between himself and his non-Jewish friends.
14:33 That's how fearful he was
14:34 of the conservative Jewish clique that's been pushing
14:37 the old system of circumcision,
14:40 but when I saw that they were not maintaining
14:43 a steady straight course according to the message,
14:46 I spoke up to Peter in front of them all.
14:48 If you ain't Jew, live like a non-Jew
14:51 when you're not being observed
14:53 by the watchdogs from Jerusalem.
14:55 What right do you have to require non-Jews to conform
14:59 to Jewish customs just to make a favorable impression
15:02 on your old Jerusalem buddies.
15:19 How to get along with the brethren.
15:24 That's just a code word
15:27 for church leaders.
15:30 Someone once quipped to dwell,
15:34 to dwell with the saints above,
15:36 oh, that will be glory.
15:41 But to live with the saints below, well,
15:44 that's another story.
15:48 We're gonna go to that another story right now.
15:52 Because it's a story you have never heard
15:54 presented from a pulpit.
15:57 I am certain.
16:00 It's the story of the church leaders
16:04 failing Paul in the moment
16:08 of his most critical need.
16:12 Let's pray.
16:14 Oh, God, truth is we all fail, don't we?
16:19 Yep.
16:21 But from this failure, may we all learn
16:27 to live together in Jesus
16:30 right now.
16:33 Amen.
16:35 Once upon a time, the church that Jesus built,
16:38 and then died for, and then rose for
16:41 and returned to heaven for,
16:43 the church was divided.
16:46 You have the Jewish Christians here.
16:48 You have the Gentile Christians here.
16:53 First of all, it was the Hellenists
16:54 or the Greek widows
16:56 who were complaining to the Jewish leaders
16:57 of the newly established Christian community and church,
17:01 that they are being ignored in the distribution of food.
17:05 And so the brethren, that would be the apostles
17:07 and the elders gathered together.
17:11 And actually, under the inspiration
17:12 of the Spirit, devise a most ingenious solution,
17:16 a food delivery system,
17:18 a love on the move system called deacons.
17:21 And it was a smashing success.
17:24 And then an angel showed up to Peter
17:27 and instructed him to go to, get this,
17:30 a Gentile pagan Roman centurion's home,
17:36 and teach that family the gospel.
17:39 And wouldn't you know it?
17:41 When Peter stands in Cornelius's ornate mansion,
17:47 the Holy Spirit pours himself out,
17:50 pours himself out on those unclean Gentiles
17:53 the same way he had already poured himself out
17:56 on the Jewish brethren in the upper room in Pentecost.
18:00 My, my, my!
18:02 What is going on in the church?
18:05 And then Paul and Barnabas come back
18:06 from that missionary tour through Asia Minor
18:09 that we relived last Sabbath.
18:11 And they are telling stories about Gentiles coming in
18:15 and Gentiles and Gentiles and Gentiles becoming followers
18:19 of Jesus Christ.
18:20 Hallelujah.
18:23 Well, the brethren in Jerusalem decide we have got
18:26 to have a church council,
18:28 because there were some of the brethren
18:30 who were declaring that unless these new Gentile believers
18:36 become circumcised, and that's a little action
18:39 on the outside of a male,
18:41 unless these new Gentile members become circumcised,
18:45 they cannot be full-fledged card carrying Christians.
18:49 No way, Jose.
18:51 But there was another group of the brethren that said,
18:53 "Wait a minute, wait a minute, of course they are."
18:56 So it was a big deal that gathering
18:59 in the city of Jerusalem.
19:02 First they heard the stories from Paul and Barnabas.
19:04 Then Peter gets up and tells the story about Cornelius
19:07 all over again.
19:09 And after hearing all the stories,
19:10 James who's the numero uno of the brethren,
19:14 he's the head.
19:17 James gets up and says quiet, quiet.
19:21 You know what?
19:22 We must not make it so hard for the Gentiles
19:24 to come into the church of our Lord.
19:27 So I recommend these three concessions.
19:31 We will limit our requirements to one abstaining
19:34 from food offered to idols and two,
19:38 abstaining from sexual immorality, and three,
19:41 eating only kosher that's no blood in it meat.
19:47 And all the people prayed.
19:49 And then they said amen.
19:51 And the word went out.
19:53 We've entered a new era in the life of the church.
19:57 A few months later,
19:59 after Paul and Barnabas have returned to Antioch
20:01 that church plant that very hybrid church plant,
20:04 which is half Jewish Christian
20:06 and half Gentile Christian.
20:08 A few months later, Peter,
20:10 one of the brethren comes up from Jerusalem to the city.
20:15 They're in northern Syria.
20:18 And oh, Peter, remember now
20:19 Peter at the Jerusalem Council has made it clear
20:22 defending Gentile Christians' right to join the church.
20:26 And so Peter sits down
20:27 with these new Gentile Christian members,
20:30 and he eats with them.
20:32 And he laughs with them, and he prays with them,
20:34 and he tells stories of Jesus with them.
20:37 He just loved fellow shipping with those new saints.
20:42 But then, dun, dun, dun.
20:47 Then unexpectedly,
20:51 a delegation from the brethren in Jerusalem
20:54 shows up.
20:58 And the moment Peter sees it,
21:02 they're probably from the circumcision party.
21:04 They're probably from the Pharisee party
21:07 of the new Christian church.
21:09 And the moment Peter sees them,
21:13 he slips away, he slips away
21:17 from the Gentile Christians and now only fellowships
21:21 with the Jewish Christians,
21:23 and Paul saw it all.
21:27 And he's not going to sit still.
21:29 Open your Bible with me
21:31 to that dramatic story.
21:32 Galatians Chapter 2,
21:33 come on, find it in your Bible.
21:35 It's on your lap right now.
21:36 Pull that Bible out on your device.
21:38 Galatians Chapter 2,
21:39 you got to see it to believe it.
21:40 This is 2:11, drop down to verse 11.
21:44 I'll be in the New International Version
21:46 as we begin reading here.
21:49 Galatians 2:11,
21:50 "And when Cephas came to Antioch..."
21:53 Now Cephas is Peter's Aramaic nickname.
21:57 It's not a crazy name.
21:59 It just meant stone like Peter does,
22:00 rock.
22:02 So we can read, "When Peter came to Antioch,"
22:06 Paul's writing here," I opposed him to his face,
22:09 because he stood condemned.
22:12 For before certain men came from James,
22:14 he used to eat with the Gentiles.
22:16 But when they arrived, he began to draw back
22:19 and separate himself from the Gentiles
22:21 because he was afraid of those
22:22 who belong to the circumcision group.
22:25 The other Jews joined Peter in his hypocrisy,
22:28 so that by their hypocrisy even Barnabas,"
22:32 I'm talking about my friend Barnabas,
22:34 "even Barnabas was led astray.
22:36 And when I saw that they were not acting in line
22:38 with the truth of the gospel, oh boy,
22:40 I said to Peter, in front of them all,
22:43 'You are a Jew, yet you live like a Gentile
22:46 and not like a Jew.
22:47 So how was it then that you force the Gentiles
22:51 to follow Jewish customs?"
22:53 Come on, Pete.
22:55 That's exactly what you're modeling,
22:57 you are enjoying, you were enjoying fellowship
22:59 without racial or religious segregation.
23:01 But as soon as this delegation shows up from the brethren,
23:05 you turn tail,
23:07 what's going on here?
23:10 And by the way, by that act, it appears that
23:12 you are now telling the Gentile Christians,
23:14 you cannot have full fellowship with us
23:17 unless you are circumcised like the rest of us.
23:20 Shame on you, Peter.
23:23 Wow! It was a...
23:26 Come on, we all can imagine it was a painful moment for Peter,
23:30 a painful moment for Paul, for Barnabas,
23:33 and for everybody in that room
23:34 when Paul is led by the Holy Spirit
23:36 to call a spade a spade.
23:40 And stands up for what is right.
23:43 But let's be honest,
23:45 the brethren are as mortal as you and I are.
23:50 And at the end of a long day,
23:52 when they take off their sandals,
23:54 they have feet of clay, just like you and me,
23:57 meaning they carry the same weaknesses
24:02 and foibles we all carry.
24:05 And that's why by the way,
24:06 we love the brethren,
24:08 I love the brethren because they're just like me,
24:10 they're just like you.
24:12 How to live with the brethren?
24:15 Let me share with you now five vital ways
24:18 from Paul himself and his life
24:22 and how you and I might live with the church leaders,
24:24 how we might respond to our church leaders,
24:27 how we might get along and sometimes not get along
24:29 so well with our church leaders,
24:31 five how to's.
24:33 Let's share them right now.
24:35 How to number one, you must know who you are,
24:40 begins with you.
24:41 Paul knows who he is.
24:42 In fact, let's read this line from 1 Corinthians 15:9-10.
24:48 Paul writes to his church plant in Corinth for,
24:51 hey, listen guys, I remind you,
24:53 I am the least of the apostles
24:55 and I do not even deserve to be called an apostle
24:57 because I persecuted the church of God.
25:00 Yes, I did.
25:01 But by the grace of God who has forgiven me,
25:03 I am what I am.
25:06 And his grace to me was not without effect.
25:09 No, I worked harder than all of them,
25:11 yet not I but the grace of God
25:14 that was in me.
25:16 I am what I am.
25:19 Let me just let that line hang in front of you and me
25:21 because I need to get this as well.
25:23 By the grace of God, I am what I am.
25:27 There is no more secure position in life
25:30 than to be yourself.
25:32 Please.
25:34 It is a man, it is a woman,
25:36 it is a teen
25:37 who is always trying so hard to be like someone else
25:39 that is the most insecure human in our bunch right now.
25:44 Yeah, of course, sometimes our parents,
25:49 and we love our parents,
25:50 and we seek to please our parents as we should.
25:53 But sometimes our parents want us to go one way.
25:57 And but there's something deep inside of us.
25:58 And we even think it might be the Spirit of God
26:01 inside of us says, no, no, no, no,
26:02 you need to go this way.
26:05 Only you and God can decide what you were wired to be.
26:08 What Paul is reminding us
26:09 is that by the grace of God, I am what I am.
26:12 I was wired this way.
26:13 I cannot be Cephas, I cannot be James,
26:17 I cannot be Barnabas, I cannot be nobody but me.
26:20 I am what I am, because I was made,
26:23 I was wired.
26:24 I have to respond to life this way.
26:26 And by the way, I want to tell you something,
26:28 if you don't show up,
26:30 listen to me carefully.
26:31 If you don't show up, I'm talking about you
26:33 that was wired a certain way
26:35 and you're fighting your wiring right now.
26:37 You're fighting it.
26:38 You're letting others tell you no, no, no,
26:40 you can't be what you're wired to be.
26:42 If you don't show up,
26:43 nobody will have what you have.
26:48 Because like snowflakes, the Creator of us all
26:51 makes every single one of us unique.
26:55 And if you don't show up,
26:56 we'll never have a Milan ever, ever, ever.
27:00 I read a story once about a rabbi,
27:03 a rabbi named Ben Ezra.
27:05 And this was so appreciate that I scribbled it down.
27:08 Ben Ezra, Ben Ezra wrote,
27:11 When I get to heaven, gave Rabbi Ben Ezra,
27:16 when I get to heaven,
27:17 God is not going to ask me,
27:19 why weren't you more like Moses?
27:23 No, God is gonna ask me.
27:25 Why weren't you more like Ben Ezra?
27:29 Have you been spending your life personally,
27:33 or professionally trying to be like somebody else?
27:36 Quit the charade.
27:38 You were wired to be who you are right now.
27:41 By the grace of God, I am what I am.
27:46 And I thank God for it.
27:49 Now the brethren, I love the brethren,
27:50 some of my best friends are brethren.
27:54 The brethren once in a while over the course
27:56 of my short life have been in touch with me.
27:59 They say, hey, Dwight, we want you to here.
28:02 Hey, Dwight, we want you over there.
28:04 Hey, Dwight, come and be with us.
28:07 And I'm always honored.
28:08 And I always say, thank you, no.
28:12 You know why?
28:14 Because I'm not that.
28:16 I'm a little pastor evangelist.
28:19 That's all I know how to do.
28:22 And so that's all I'm going to do.
28:24 By the grace of God, I am what I am,
28:27 and I thank God.
28:29 You can say the same by the grace of God,
28:32 I am what I am, and I thank God.
28:34 There's nobody like you in the world.
28:35 If you don't show up, we will miss you forever,
28:39 because God will never repeat it.
28:41 He never repeat it, like the bells.
28:42 This was beautiful by the way, wasn't it?
28:44 This was beautiful.
28:46 You take if just one of those bells,
28:48 if you take just one of these bells, okay?
28:54 If we have everybody that plays this note,
28:57 if everybody plays this note,
28:59 this is the most boring music on earth.
29:03 You got to have another one, you got to have another one
29:05 and you got to have another one.
29:07 If one of those does not show up,
29:09 we don't have complete music.
29:11 Am I telling the truth or what?
29:13 Of course, by the grace of God.
29:17 I'm this note.
29:19 And I'm part, I'm part of a choir
29:23 of friends of Jesus as we just sang,
29:25 I am a friend of God.
29:27 I'm a part of a choir,
29:28 a bell choir that covers this planet
29:31 and every note is crucial
29:34 for the music to be complete.
29:38 Okay, five ways, five how to's.
29:42 Deliver the brethren.
29:43 Number one, you must know who you are.
29:46 Number two, respect your leaders.
29:48 Scribble that down in your mind.
29:50 And so Paul does here in Galatia.
29:51 In fact, the story that we just read in the opening
29:54 all around it are these verses,
29:56 I put them on the screen for you,
29:57 Galatians 1:10,
29:58 "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings
30:00 or of God?"
30:02 I don't want to prove, I don't want to...
30:04 I don't need your approval, I need only God's,
30:06 that's what Paul is saying.
30:07 It's a good way to live.
30:09 "Or am I trying to please people?"
30:10 We got a lot of people pleasers in this culture.
30:14 You don't have to be.
30:16 "Or am I trying to please people?
30:17 If I were still trying to please people,
30:19 I would not be a servant of Christ."
30:21 Keep reading.
30:22 "As for those who were held in high esteem,
30:24 whatever they were makes no difference to me,
30:26 God doesn't show favoritism."
30:28 If you're this part of the brethren
30:30 or this part or not even part of the brethren at all,
30:32 God doesn't care.
30:33 "God does not show favoritism.
30:36 They added nothing to my message."
30:38 Keep reading.
30:39 "James, Cephas and John..."
30:41 Now this is not James, the brother of John.
30:42 He's been beheaded. He's dead.
30:44 He was the first of the disciples to be martyred.
30:46 This is James the stepbrother of Jesus,
30:48 James, Peter and John.
30:51 Well, we know John boy, of course.
30:53 "These esteemed as pillars gave me and Barnabas
30:57 the right hand of fellowship
30:58 when they recognize the grace given to me.
31:00 They agreed that we should go to the Gentiles,
31:02 and they should go to the circumcised."
31:04 Anybody have a problem with that?
31:06 Not at all.
31:08 I am what I am, but I respect my leaders.
31:12 In fact, there'll be an episode
31:17 where Paul will be arrested in Jerusalem.
31:21 He will end up before the Sanhedrin,
31:24 the very judicial body
31:26 he was once a member of they hate Paul,
31:29 because he's a turncoat.
31:32 He will show up before the Sanhedrin
31:35 and when he goes on trial,
31:37 the retired high priest Ananias commands one of the guards,
31:42 slap that boy in the face.
31:45 Paul hears this man,
31:47 ask the stranger maybe a soldier nearby
31:50 slap Paul in the face and Paul turns,
31:52 Paul turns and he cries at you whitewashed wall,
31:56 God will strike you.
31:58 And somebody said, "Don't you know
32:00 that's the high priest."
32:02 Paul immediately apologizes,
32:05 "My lord, I've made a mistake."
32:07 Watch this. I'm not making this up.
32:09 This is in the trial, Acts 23:5,
32:10 "Paul replied, 'Hey, brothers,
32:12 I did not realize that he was the high priest,
32:15 for it is written in Exodus 22,
32:18 'Do not speak evil about the ruler of your people.'"
32:22 Let me iso that line
32:23 so that it hangs in front of your comprehending mind
32:26 for a moment, do not speak evil
32:28 about the leader of your people.
32:30 I'm going to tell you the truth.
32:32 I have sought to live by that lie,
32:34 by that line in my ministry.
32:39 Do not speak evil about the leader of your people.
32:41 Only the line I learned it's identical to it.
32:44 But it happened in the Old Testament.
32:45 And David is hiding in a cave with his gorilla warriors.
32:50 And Saul, King Saul.
32:53 Paul, whose name was Saul
32:55 was named after the first king of Israel.
32:57 Saul comes into this cave to relieve himself,
33:00 and David is there.
33:02 And his guerrilla warriors are there, this is the chance.
33:05 Saul comes in and David doesn't flinch.
33:10 Emotions is made, don't move.
33:13 And finally Saul leaves.
33:15 And they said, "Master, what are you thinking?
33:18 This guy has, is out to destroy you.
33:20 And you could have taken him out
33:22 and ended this bitter war."
33:24 And David's reply, and this is what I memorize
33:26 to my young ministry.
33:28 David's reply, "How can I put forth my hand
33:33 and touch the anointed.
33:36 I will not touch the anointed."
33:38 And I made that the motto of my life for the brethren,
33:41 any leader, any leader,
33:44 I will not put forth my hand
33:47 and touch the anointed.
33:50 Jesus says, if you have something against somebody,
33:55 you go to him, you go to her
34:00 and you tell her privately your concern.
34:05 I will not publicly or privately
34:08 take a leader down verbally,
34:11 or any other way.
34:13 I know that's uncomfortable.
34:15 And I sat in a group once it was tearing apart a leader
34:17 who was not present.
34:18 My philosophy is if the leader is not here,
34:20 if she is not here,
34:21 if he is not here,
34:23 we're not talking about him.
34:24 You can ask my staff, get him in a corner,
34:26 say tell me the truth.
34:28 That's the truth.
34:29 If you're not in the room, we don't talk about you.
34:32 If you're a leader raised up by God,
34:35 I don't wanna stretch forth my hand
34:37 and touch the Lord's anointed.
34:41 You know, what happens, don't you?
34:44 It is a coward to intimidate to speak up
34:48 to leaders that tears down that leader
34:50 when the leader is not presence.
34:53 That's coward that's doing that.
34:56 Don't be a coward.
34:57 Matthew 18 says, you got something, go.
35:00 Take care of it.
35:03 Wow. Respect your leaders.
35:06 And by the way, if you're going to respect your leaders,
35:07 I do hope you'll pray for them.
35:08 I do.
35:10 I'm at the bottom of the food chain.
35:12 So I start up way at the top.
35:14 And I know the leader and his wife and I go down,
35:16 I go down every level
35:18 and I pray for the leader and his wife,
35:19 the leader and his wife, the leader and his wife
35:21 all the way down to me
35:22 and then I pray for the leader on this campus as well,
35:24 that's no big deal.
35:26 But I have found
35:27 that if you're praying for somebody,
35:29 you are less likely to tear them
35:32 apart and criticize them privately.
35:36 Pray for your leaders.
35:37 That's what it means to respect your leader.
35:39 All right.
35:42 There're three of these.
35:44 Here comes number three, you must know who you are.
35:46 Number one, respect your leaders.
35:48 Number two, number three,
35:49 stand up for what you believe is right.
35:53 No matter who the leader is.
35:55 That's what Paul does with Peter,
35:57 believing rightfully that Peter's example
35:58 will destroy the power of the gospel
36:00 they have been preaching.
36:01 And when Barnabas is led astray,
36:03 it just blows Paul's mind and breaks his heart.
36:08 N.T. Wright in that marvelous biography of Paul,
36:11 captures the moment when Paul says in Galatians,
36:14 even Barnabas, watch this.
36:18 Here's Wright dealing with it.
36:19 "The lasting shock of this moment is concentrated
36:21 in Paul's use of the word even.
36:24 There is pain in that word,
36:26 like someone trying to take a step on a foot
36:28 with a broken bone in it.
36:30 Even Barnabas! Barnabas had been with Paul
36:34 through the joys and trials of the mission in Galatia.
36:36 They had shared everything,
36:38 they had prayed and worked and celebrated
36:41 and suffered side by side.
36:43 They had themselves welcomed many non-Jews into the family.
36:48 And now this,"
36:49 Barnabas goes slinking away following Peter.
36:57 Heartbroken, even Barnabas.
37:02 Paul has to speak up.
37:03 Because if you must, because you must stand up
37:05 for what you believe.
37:07 If you don't speak up,
37:08 if you don't stand up, who will?
37:11 Everybody's waiting for you, you might as well do it.
37:14 Speak up, stand up for what you believe.
37:19 In this day and age in which the culture wars
37:21 of America have pitted the wealthy against the poor,
37:24 the resident against the immigrant,
37:26 the insider against the outsider,
37:28 the white against the black,
37:30 the male against the female,
37:31 somebody has to become a voice for the voiceless,
37:35 for the disenfranchised, for the marginalized,
37:37 for the alienated and that somebody is you,
37:40 speak up.
37:44 Be that voice for God
37:46 and stand up for what you believe is right.
37:49 Number four,
37:50 disagree agreeably.
37:55 Paul wrote these words, was it Ephesians 4:29.
37:59 Good counsel by the way.
38:01 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths,
38:06 but only what is helpful for building others up
38:08 according to their needs that it may benefit
38:11 those who listen."
38:13 Listen, never say in the morning,
38:16 or in the afternoon what you will regret
38:19 when you crawl into bed at night.
38:23 Just don't say it.
38:25 You're no hero.
38:28 Just don't say it.
38:31 And your conscience will tell you
38:32 whether to say it or not, trust the Holy Spirit.
38:37 We will not always agree, I get it.
38:39 But we must always be agreeable.
38:42 Paul and Barnabas fall apart over the decision,
38:45 we let John Mark come back onto our team or not?
38:49 Paul says, no way after that,
38:52 that boy who couldn't stand the heat,
38:54 who can't stand hardship.
38:56 No, we're not letting him back on the team.
38:57 Barnabas says, "Come on, Paul,
38:59 give me a break that he's just a boy.
39:01 He's maturing, he'll be..."
39:03 No, yes.
39:04 No, yes.
39:06 It gets so intense that this word is,
39:09 this word is actually in the Bible,
39:11 Acts 15:39. "They had such a sharp,
39:17 such a sharp disagreement that they parted company."
39:21 And as far as we know,
39:22 they never worked together again.
39:28 It's okay.
39:31 Jesus says it's okay to disagree.
39:35 But disagree in an agreeable way.
39:39 Treat each other like you'd want to be treated.
39:42 Finally, number five.
39:46 You must know who you are.
39:50 You want to picture that screen you'll have these five,
39:53 you must know who you are, number one.
39:56 Number two, respect your leaders.
39:59 Number three,
40:00 stand up for what you believe is right.
40:02 Number four, disagree agreeably.
40:05 And finally, number five,
40:07 follow the Leader and notice the L is capitalized.
40:12 Because we come to this heartbreaking story.
40:16 Most people ignore it.
40:18 But not a little book called Sketches on the Life of Paul,
40:22 the veil is pulled aside and we see dynamics
40:26 that we can easily recognize ourselves.
40:30 It's one of the saddest stories in Paul's life.
40:33 What happened to him when he went
40:35 to all these Gentile church plants
40:37 that he has personally planted along with his sidekicks?
40:42 And he says, "Guys,
40:43 they're having this devastating famine in Jerusalem.
40:47 The brethren are there.
40:49 Let's take an offering for them."
40:51 Now, Paul's intention is by the Gentile Christians
40:53 doing this act of grace, this act of love,
40:56 it will win the hearts,
40:58 it will move the brethren and they'll say you know what?
41:02 They're part of the family like us.
41:06 That's what Paul is hoping and praying.
41:07 But guess what happens when he walks into Jerusalem?
41:11 We'll let sketches take over from this point on.
41:15 Let me put it on the screen for you.
41:16 Fills in the blanks of a very sad, sad story.
41:20 Sketches from the Life of Paul.
41:21 "The Spirit of God impressed the minds of the brethren,"
41:24 there it is, "and affected their hearts
41:27 as they listen to Paul's report,"
41:29 as he's given the offering.
41:32 "But beneath this apparent harmony, prejudice
41:35 and dissatisfaction were still smoldering."
41:39 Fire hasn't gone out.
41:41 "Some in the church were still striving
41:44 to mold Christianity after their old customs
41:47 and ceremonies that were to pass away
41:49 at the death of Christ."
41:53 Isn't that amazing?
41:55 The church is still the same,
41:57 2000 years,
41:59 we have not changed.
42:02 What you're talking about?
42:04 Oh, it says here, some are still trying
42:05 to preserve the old customs and ceremonies.
42:07 The truth is, we still have a hard time
42:10 in letting those customs and ceremonies go.
42:15 I think of the church today,
42:17 relying upon ancient customs
42:18 and traditions to defend practice that remands
42:22 a segment of its members
42:23 from sharing in the ministry of the gospel.
42:25 No, no, no, no, no, you, you can't serve that way.
42:29 That's only for us.
42:31 You cannot serve that way.
42:33 That's for us.
42:38 "The elders of the church had been at fault
42:41 in allowing themselves to be influenced
42:43 by the enemies of the apostles."
42:46 The Sanhedrin and its spies, they've colored
42:48 the whole brethren in Jerusalem.
42:52 "Now was the golden opportunity,"
42:54 at the end of Paul's report,
42:55 "for these leading men to frankly confess
42:58 that they had been wronged,
43:00 that God had wrought through Paul,
43:03 and that they were wrong in permitting the reports
43:06 of his enemies to create jealousy and prejudice
43:09 against him."
43:10 Oftentimes, the debates of the church
43:13 are about jealousy and pride.
43:15 Not every time.
43:17 Of course not.
43:19 That's what took down Paul,
43:22 jealousy, prejudice.
43:27 We can't change now.
43:31 And instead, what happens?
43:34 James, the stepbrother of Jesus,
43:36 the leader of the brethren,
43:38 sets Paul up to have to compromise
43:42 his strong conviction that Mosaic Law
43:44 was no longer binding on the church.
43:46 Paul, thank you so much for everything you've done.
43:49 Listen, we have a little something
43:51 we need you to do.
43:52 Just go through some of those old purification rites,
43:54 you know, the Mosaic Law,
43:57 will take you about seven days,
43:58 it won't cost you much.
43:59 Just do it.
44:01 Let everybody out there know you're not down on Moses.
44:04 Okay?
44:06 And Paul, so longing
44:10 to accommodate the brethren says okay.
44:19 Sketches again.
44:21 "But the advice given by James to Paul was not consistent
44:25 with what that decision in Acts 15 had decided.
44:28 The Spirit of God did not prompt this advice.
44:31 It was the fruit of cowardice."
44:37 Cowardice.
44:39 The brethren were afraid of the political consequences.
44:44 And so in a political maneuver,
44:47 for the sake of political expediency,
44:49 the brethren convinced this intrepid warrior
44:52 for Christ to compromise his strong conviction,
44:55 all because the brethren were afraid
44:58 of what the people might say.
45:04 And the authorities might do.
45:07 And Paul, God bless him,
45:10 was willing to go along,
45:13 hoping that they might then change their ways
45:16 and amend their strategy,
45:18 so that the full church could participate
45:23 in the life of the church.
45:30 "Paul felt that if he could by any lawful concession
45:33 on his part win the brethren to the truth,
45:36 he would remove a very great obstacle
45:39 to the success of the gospel in other places."
45:42 So he compromises his own conviction,
45:45 but he was, listen to this.
45:48 No punches pull for you to side.
45:50 "But he was not authorized of God
45:53 to concede so much as they had asked.
45:57 His advisers were not infallible."
46:00 Now keep reading.
46:02 "Though some of these men wrote
46:04 under the inspiration of the Spirit of God..."
46:06 Hit the pause button right there.
46:07 Okay, who in the brethren in that room,
46:11 who would write under the inspiration of God?
46:12 Well, that would be Peter for sure.
46:14 Right? Peter.
46:15 That would be James and we have a book
46:17 of the New Testament named after James,
46:19 the stepbrother.
46:20 Jude, the other stepbrother of Jesus
46:22 has also a book in the Bible.
46:24 John boy who was one of the try,
46:27 try leaders, leadership team,
46:31 John boy who wrote the gospel
46:33 and Revelation.
46:37 Oh, my, what's going on here? Keep reading.
46:38 "Though some of these men wrote
46:40 under the inspiration of the Spirit of God,
46:42 yet when not under its direct influence
46:46 they sometimes erred."
46:49 And now we know that you can be an inspired writer.
46:54 And when you're not under the inspiration of the spirit,
46:58 give poor counsel.
47:01 Every word is not inspired.
47:03 It wasn't of Peter, it wasn't of James,
47:05 it wasn't of John,
47:06 it isn't anybody else you might think
47:08 of that you consider an inspired writer.
47:14 I didn't say that.
47:20 They were wrong.
47:23 Cowardice held them back and the church was set back
47:27 by these beloved leaders called the brethren.
47:31 In fact, after Paul was arrested.
47:34 At the end of the seven days,
47:35 they should have known this is the most recognizable face
47:36 in the Roman Empire right now.
47:38 This guy's gone to every major city he's shown up
47:41 everybody knows, there's no social media,
47:42 but they know this face and he was spotted.
47:46 He almost lost his life.
47:50 There was a plot to assassinate him on the way to court.
47:59 After Paul was arrested, and he came,
48:01 and he comes this close to being executed.
48:06 There's little angle here that only Sketches points out.
48:09 And I thought you might need to know.
48:12 "When Peter had been made a prisoner
48:15 and condemned to death,
48:17 the brethren had offered earnest prayer to God day
48:20 and night for his deliverance."
48:22 That's Acts Chapter 12.
48:25 "But no such interest was manifested in behalf of Paul,
48:30 who was looked upon as an apostate for Moses,
48:32 a teacher of dangerous doctrines.
48:35 It was not to the elders whose counsel had brought him
48:39 into this dangerous position that Paul owed his escape
48:44 from a violent death."
48:45 They did not pray for him,
48:48 jealousy and pride.
48:51 We haven't changed at all.
48:56 They didn't even pray for him.
48:59 This champion without whom you and I
49:03 would not be here today.
49:06 We would not be here.
49:07 There's not a Jew in this building.
49:11 It took somebody to break out of the old customs
49:14 and traditions and say no,
49:17 let them in.
49:19 Let them in.
49:23 And yet guess what?
49:24 Paul forgave the brethren.
49:29 Turns out, it's a prayer of the cross,
49:31 Father forgive them,
49:34 for they don't know
49:35 what they are doing.
49:40 The prayer of Calvary,
49:42 bloodstain pressed from the agonizing heart
49:47 of the Savior Himself before He died.
49:50 That prayer of Calvary for forgiveness was for you.
49:54 That prayer of Calvary for forgiveness is for me.
49:57 And that prayer from Calvary is for the brethren today.
50:02 He forgave us all.
50:04 Jesus forgave us all.
50:09 It's why Paul could forgive.
50:16 When you can always follow a leader
50:18 you can and must follow the capital L, Leader.
50:22 Don't follow me.
50:23 I'm a part of the brethren now.
50:25 Don't follow me.
50:28 You follow the capital L, Leader.
50:30 That's who you follow.
50:32 Paul makes the point himself in 1 Corinthians 11:1,
50:35 "Follow my example,
50:37 as I follow the example of Christ."
50:41 Follow the Leader.
50:43 And what is the mindset of a Leader,
50:45 the capital L, Leader?
50:46 Last line before I sit down, Philippians 2,
50:49 "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus,
50:53 who made Himself nothing
50:55 by taking the very nature of a servant."
50:57 You want to be a servant leader,
50:59 then this is what you do.
51:02 "Jesus who humbled Himself
51:06 and became obedient to death,
51:09 even the death of the cross."
51:13 Follow the leader, the capital L, Leader.
51:17 Follow the Leader.
51:19 And by the way, when you do,
51:22 it will always lead you
51:26 to the cross
51:28 as we will find out next week.
51:31 Let us pray.
51:33 Oh, God,
51:36 give us the heart of Jesus
51:38 that we might love all, we might forgive all,
51:43 we might embrace all,
51:45 and we might unite with all in the high calling
51:48 of this hour at the end of human history.
51:52 We cannot go to heaven divided and we won't.
51:56 So grant us the capital L, Leader's grace,
52:02 to follow Him.
52:04 We pray in His name.
52:08 Amen.
52:09 Amen.
52:12 Connect Paul 6 please to this number
52:15 for your electronic Connect card
52:17 269-281-2345.
52:20 When you do, you'll find these next steps.
52:24 Number one, I want to follow the leader capital L, Leader,
52:27 even if it means to the cross, of course, I do too.
52:30 I put a check mark there.
52:32 Number two, I will pray for the brethren
52:34 by name and position.
52:36 I invite you to do that please.
52:38 Love them through your prayers.
52:39 And finally, number three,
52:41 I want to follow Jesus in baptism.
52:43 Some of you are thinking,
52:44 baptism is the next step for me.
52:46 Good for you.
52:49 269-281-2345,
52:51 it's all you have to do is text,
52:53 Paul 6 to that number.
52:56 And then you check. I want to be baptized.
52:59 I want to be a leader like Jesus.
53:02 I am who I am by His grace
53:03 and by His grace I will live for Him
53:06 till He comes.
53:07 Amen. Come on singers, lead us in that song.
53:14 We invite you all to stand
53:16 as we sing the last song.
53:41 Make us one,
53:45 Make us one
53:50 Your will be done
53:55 Make us one
54:19 One with the Father
54:21 One with the Spirit
54:23 One with the Son of God
54:28 One with our sister
54:30 One with our brother
54:32 One family by the blood
54:35 Make us one,
54:40 Make us one
54:44 Your will be done
54:49 Make us one
55:03 One heart with heaven
55:06 One mind connected
55:08 One body unified
55:13 Bind us together now and forever
55:17 Jesus be glorified
55:20 Make us one,
55:25 Make us one
55:29 Your will be done,
55:34 Make us one
55:38 Make us one,
55:42 Make us one
55:47 Your will be done,
55:51 Make us one
55:57 We confess all our offenses
55:59 We confess we've been afraid
56:01 We repent of all our pride
56:04 Let all the hurt be washed away
56:06 For all the wars and violence
56:08 Against our enemy
56:10 Come heal our land With Your great river
56:13 Restore the family and make us one
56:18 Make us one
56:23 Your will be done
56:27 Make us one
56:32 Make us one,
56:36 Make us one
56:40 Oh, make us one
56:45 Make us one
56:49 Let Your kingdom come
56:53 Make us one
56:58 Oh, make us one
57:07 We've been really blessed by the financial support
57:09 that comes from our viewers,
57:11 and we've made a conscious decision
57:12 not to continually appeal to you for that support.
57:16 The fact is, as everyone in the industry will tell you,
57:18 we're needing to make constant upgrades to our technology.
57:22 So if God has blessed you
57:23 and you'd like to further the work of this ministry,
57:25 we invite you to partner with us.
57:27 Not a single penny of your donation will go to me.
57:30 Every bit of your gift goes to the mission
57:32 of blessing your community and our world.
57:35 You can donate on our website, newperceptions.tv
57:38 or call the number.
57:39 You know the number 877-HIS-WILL.
57:42 Again, that number is 877,
57:44 the two words HIS-WILL.
57:46 And may the God who has blessed you
57:48 continue to pour into your life
57:49 the gifts of His joy and His hope.
57:52 Thank you.
57:54 And I'm looking forward to seeing you,
57:55 right here, again, next time.


Home

Revised 2022-01-06